How many guys is too many

[adulbrich 5,000+ posts]

Ok, serious thread, especially for the thunderdome.

How many guys do you think is too much for your ________ to have had sex with?

1. One time thing

2. Fuck-buddy

3. Not serious girlfriend (like a month)

4. Serious girlfriend that you stay with for a while

5. Wife

Is there really a number that you guys would pin to certain things? Or is it kinda based on how cool and sexy she is?

Like for the last example, how many would be a deal breaker that would prevent you from wanting to settle down with someone?

Was just thinking about this

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[AnthonyO 10+ year member]

I wouldn't give it a number. But just keep in mind, you can't turn a hoe into a housewife.

 

[adulbrich 5,000+ posts]

True, but if she's just your hoe and nobody else's anymore, how many would be too many?

Got a new prospect, but she's up there //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif

Still, I've definitely dated one girl with a higher number

 

[AnthonyO 10+ year member]

Like I said its hard to put a number on it. Hell, when I was single I slept with ALOT of women. I didn't discriminate, I fucked fat, skinny, pretty, ugly, black or white. If she was giving it up, I was taking it. Hell, if you like her, get with it. If she turns out to be the girl of your dreams, its a win. If she turns out to just be hoe, you still hit it. So its a win, win.

 

[Tripn88]

Look at her next time y'all getting it on. You see a number? I don't ask my wife how many she's been with... I'd probably cry if I knew haha. Jk jk.

 

[adulbrich 5,000+ posts]

True. I wouldn't mind some fat bitches //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/yumyum.gif.0556df42231b304b9c995aefd13928a8.gif

 

[adulbrich 5,000+ posts]

Look at her next time y'all getting it on. You see a number? I don't ask my wife how many she's been with... I'd probably cry if I knew haha. Jk jk.

You're not the first person I've talked to who said they never asked their wife how many dudes railed her. I don't get that.

I'm the kinda person who likes to know things, so I'm not wondering if Jamari down the block used to hit it

 

[Tripn88]

Nah she don't like black dudes... I assume Jamari is black lmao.

Eh, just different I guess. I don't see what the difference is of her being with 100 different ***** or 1 a hundred times. As long as she's clean what's the worry?

 

[noble brown]

Look, none of that really matters. Only two things really matter. First, treat em the way they act. Fu¢k the past. You will kill a relationship with that type of thinking. If she acts like a hoe then treat her like one. If she acts like a woman, treat her like one. The second part of it is don't expect her to be what she isn't. If she acts like a hoe don't expect her to be a monogamous person.

And you know what, it doesn't matter what she is or isn't. All that matters is whether or not you are ok with what she is. So what if she likes di¢k? It's either worth it to fu¢k with her or it isn't. Only you can answer that question.

 

[jordon]

The more the better. Experience is everything.

 

[whitedragon551 5,000+ posts]

If you even have to ask, sounds like her number is too high for you.

 

[speedyjuarez Premium Member]

Yeah numbers matter to me, also depends on her age. The younger with high numbers is a no go, if shes older then its a maybe. I don't want to be with a chick and find out everyone has had the goods. If shes a decent chick only a few guys will have been in her, if she don't care everyone has been in her. Its about self respect.

 

[C1500martin 10+ year member]

1 black guy is too much... NEXT!

 

[adulbrich 5,000+ posts]

Nah she don't like black dudes... I assume Jamari is black lmao.
Eh, just different I guess. I don't see what the difference is of her being with 100 different ***** or 1 a hundred times. As long as she's clean what's the worry?

Cuz she a hoe if it's 100 dudes

Look, none of that really matters. Only two things really matter. First, treat em the way they act. Fu¢k the past. You will kill a relationship with that type of thinking. If she acts like a hoe then treat her like one. If she acts like a woman, treat her like one. The second part of it is don't expect her to be what she isn't. If she acts like a hoe don't expect her to be a monogamous person.And you know what, it doesn't matter what she is or isn't. All that matters is whether or not you are ok with what she is. So what if she likes di¢k? It's either worth it to fu¢k with her or it isn't. Only you can answer that question.

Wise words

The more the better. Experience is everything.

Yuck, but I see your point

If you even have to ask, sounds like her number is too high for you.

It's not. I almost settled down with worse.

I was just looking for some second opinions

Yeah numbers matter to me, also depends on her age. The younger with high numbers is a no go, if shes older then its a maybe. I don't want to be with a chick and find out everyone has had the goods. If shes a decent chick only a few guys will have been in her, if she don't care everyone has been in her. Its about self respect.

Yeah, young hoes are the sluttiest

1 black guy is too much... NEXT!

Totally agree.

No black dudes, so the pu55y don't look like this earlobe!

 

[noble brown]

We have crazy double standards. A chick that has lots of partners is a ***** w no self respect and a dude w lots of partners is a confident stud. It's bs IMO. I can't fault a chick for doing what she wants. Most ppl just can't handle the fact that someone they think they want to be with isn't going to do what we want them to. Stop trying to force ppl into your mold. The best you can do is surround yourself w ppl that you can accept as they are.