how bad do you hate child molestors?

[Lugnutz 10+ year member]

I honestly have a hard time understanding the logic in this thread. The physical I get. We pay for insurance (well some of us do) to protect us...but if you had a relative that you really cared for and found out that she (lets just call her your 6-10 year old sister's daughter) was being ***** over and over for a year, you would just be like "sorry honey, lets call the cops"

I have a hard time understanding your thuggery logic. My sister was abused. When I found out my first thoughts were to murder him. Then i controlled myself. Now he is in jail and lost everything he had and will struggle for the rest of his life. My sister has been able to move on and I can continue with my life.

 

[Captain_Ahab 5,000+ posts]

Lets come up with a realistic story. Lets say im 18 years old, and I take this girl out and she tells me she's 18 too...but in reality she's 15 Now you all know damn well that there are 15 year old girls that look 22-25 and act like it too....

Yes. Definitely. All I'm saying. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif:laugh://content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif:laugh://content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif

I am Troll Guard. Get some!

RAWR!

Yes. Glad to know that they is no possibility of faking an ID. Hell, DH gets into clubs and he isn't 21. If he can, what is stopping a girl that's 16 from making one, entering a club, you taking her home and fvcking her brains out, she tells daddy and now you are a child molester.

Only gotta be 18 to get into clubs here. But I have had two forms of fake/altered ID over the past year stating I am 21..

And I also experienced first hand evidence of a 16 year old getting into the club as 21 and drinking. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif:laugh://content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif

Boats N' Hoes

quit that! I lol every time.

 

[Pl8er 5,000+ posts]

Yes. I do admit that it's hard to set aside emotions in that case. Honestly, most people would have an initial emotion of anger, No doubt.
But when you think long term, "What is the best way to handle this", violence isn't the answer. There are too many variables that don't pay off by resolving the situation with violence. In the best case, you are teaching your child that responding with violence is an appropriate mechanism for conflict resolution. In the worst case, you are dead and cannot provide any support for her. IMO, it just doesn't pay to respond with violence, when you can be there for her and support her in person. Sure, you may have to swallow your pride, but that is a small price to pay.

Although parts of this I can agree with...It is this thinking that leads to issues like this:



Just cliffs for someone who doesn't want to watch, this girl was abused for years and kept getting sent back to her mother and finally her new step dad punched her in the stomach so hard that she died.

So although the proper people were notified and this girl may have learned the "appropriate mechanism for conflict resolution" her state failed her and she died.

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

Although parts of this I can agree with...It is this thinking that leads to issues like this:

The state does fail people from time to time. I wish it didn't, but it does. Do you think beating the guy up would have prevented the step father from essentially killing the girl?

 

[CantGetEnufBASS 10+ year member]

wow this thread is still going?

 

[IamDeMan 5,000+ posts]

I don't like Child molesters either. I just don't care for competition.

 

[James Bang 5,000+ posts]

wow this thread is still going?

slowly but surely.

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

slowly but surely.

It will die once all the east coasters get off from work.

 

[Lugnutz 10+ year member]

wow this thread is still going?

It only started 2 hours ago? //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/confused.gif.e820e0216602db4765798ac39d28caa9.gif

 

[Pl8er 5,000+ posts]

The state does fail people from time to time. I wish it didn't, but it does. Do you think beating the guy up would have prevented the step father from essentially killing the girl?

Perhaps we are talking about two different things. I wouldn't beat up this guy for abusing this girl...I woudl expect someone that loved the little girl (in a way I blame her father since both of her legs were broken) to take care of it. If she had no one (like in this example) she should have been protected by the state..... I'm not going to go out and look for trouble. I'm saying if trouble came near enough to me I would resolve it myself (that could resort to violence but more than likely a stern warning of never come near my home).

Now, if this situation happened to someone in my family, there would be no warning, just reaction. Is that barbaric? Perhaps, but I love the people in my family that much that I would do whatever I had to do until it was done.

I think part of this lies in the amount of emotion that people place on other people in this day and age. Most would rather just ignore it and let it get resolved "the right way" instead of stepping in and stepping up and making the problem end quickly. To be blunt, people only care about themselves.

Pretty much like all these clips you see on the news of someone getting hit by a car and everyone just walking around them. Society is sad and our systems have all failed, yet we hold onto the only thing we know because it makes us feel safe.

I'm really trying to see everyone's point on this, but I guess I can't help but to resort to violence in this instance, and I'm not a voilent kinda guy.

 

[jgorz420 10+ year member]

He's gonna have some fun in

Genesee county. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/boink.gif.91933e72f927f2cefc79aff02573090c.gif

 

[Lugnutz 10+ year member]

Perhaps we are talking about two different things. I wouldn't beat up this guy for abusing this girl...I woudl expect someone that loved the little girl (in a way I blame her father since both of her legs were broken) to take care of it. If she had no one (like in this example) she should have been protected by the state..... I'm not going to go out and look for trouble. I'm saying if trouble came near enough to me I would resolve it myself (that could resort to violence but more than likely a stern warning of never come near my home).
Now, if this situation happened to someone in my family, there would be no warning, just reaction. Is that barbaric? Perhaps, but I love the people in my family that much that I would do whatever I had to do until it was done.

I think part of this lies in the amount of emotion that people place on other people in this day and age. Most would rather just ignore it and let it get resolved "the right way" instead of stepping in and stepping up and making the problem end quickly. To be blunt, people only care about themselves.

Pretty much like all these clips you see on the news of someone getting hit by a car and everyone just walking around them. Society is sad and our systems have all failed, yet we hold onto the only thing we know because it makes us feel safe.

I'm really trying to see everyone's point on this, but I guess I can't help but to resort to violence in this instance, and I'm not a voilent kinda guy.

But you are not ending the problem and you are creating a problem for yourself that your family will have to deal with.

 

[Pl8er 5,000+ posts]

But you are not ending the problem and you are creating a problem for yourself that your family will have to deal with.

I know //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif It's very difficult. I think I would over react and end up in jail honestly. But is my life worth a child's? I honestly think so.

 

[Lugnutz 10+ year member]

I know //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif It's very difficult. I think I would over react and end up in jail honestly. But is my life worth a child's? I honestly think so.

Having a father in jail will help them? I would remove my child from the situation before killing the abuser.

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

Now, if this situation happened to someone in my family, there would be no warning, just reaction. Is that barbaric? Perhaps, but I love the people in my family that much that I would do whatever I had to do until it was done.

I think part of this lies in the amount of emotion that people place on other people in this day and age. Most would rather just ignore it and let it get resolved "the right way" instead of stepping in and stepping up and making the problem end quickly. To be blunt, people only care about themselves.

First, do you think this type of response yields the most positive results. If you believe that risking jailtime for yourself is an appropriate response, then there is nothing really to argue about. I feel the a response of allowing the judicial system to handle it allows me to be there. I try to put myself in the postion of the child. Would I rather my daddy kick the guy's *** and risk going to jail/losing his job/etc. or would I rather have my daddy there to hold on to and make me feel secure when I feel most vulnerable?

See that is the perspective I take. That by being there, I can provide the security and comfort they need when they need it most.If I ended up in jail, can I really provide that? I wouldn't think a six year old would understand that daddy's in jail because he beat up the child molester. I think they would only know their daddy isn't there when they need them the most.