resistance causes it to get hot, how many amps are you drawing? generally in my experience the ground doesnt get even warm unless there is an issue ( bad ground ect ), the way dc works the voltage starts at the ground and travels to the positive. if they are dif sizes of wire the ground can and usually will get hot due to the resistance, that is why is is important to keep them the same size and also make the ground as short as possible. as well if you have extremely large current draw you should ground the rear battery directly to the front.if both wires get hot the wire isnt even close to big enough.