I think I have realistically determined your problems here, you need to let the sub break in, and you need a bigger box, a friend of mine was in the same predicament, he had a mofo 12 and always wondered why I was louder then him when I had mine, I had mine in a large ported box, his was in a sh!tty prefab sealed one, he never wanted to believe his box was the problem, and to this day his potentially loud woofer sounds like sh!t, not saying your box is bad, I just don't think it's suitable for the sub, and the break in thing isn't BS, cuz my rl-p did get louder over time