jco1385
5,000+ posts
expert jcologist
She may only be friends with the guy and that is it. But like every guy, if he sees one chance to get with her, he will do it. You aren't married to the girl and I'm guessing maybe this "vacation" was planned before you two got together? If so tough shit. I wouldn't break my plans with frieds just cause I was going out with someone. Your best bet is to act like you don't care. Don't call her while she is gone, and don't call her when she comes back. Wait for her to call you. The last thing you want to do is act like a wuss and call her 24/7. Women pick up on those types of things and if she is off with the other guy, she will see him as the "alpha male". If you aren't calling her she will be wondering what YOU are doing. And you should be out doing things with other people during this time. If she happens to call you while she is gone, tell her that you are tied up at the moment and will call her back. Personally I'd wait until the next day to call back. It's really all about female psycology. Also, don't get in a fight with this guy. That will make you seem desperate and jealous. Like I said, you need to have the "I don't give a shit" attitude and remember, women are replaceable!
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