Girl Advice

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

theres no way i could follow her anywhere. my car stands out pretty good. lol would be impossible.

shouldnt do it anyway.

is there honestly any chance that she really did just blow off some steam hanging out with people from work and thought id be mad if she just wanted a night to herself?
im just really scared that if there is another guy i might really fly off the handle and kill/ hurt him maybe her....... last girl i dated was a shiesty bi tch that lied to me all the time and i kept taking her back. the guy she was messing around with i almost killed cause i put a dent in his hood with his head.......

he threatened me first so i didnt care but still.......could get into some shit for doing that stuff.

you have issues man.

guarantee you thats easier said then done.

for some people.

what really throws me off is this is all coming out of left field. she hasnt been avoiding me, hell SHE made plans for us to be together all weekend, insisted she come over last night when i told her if she was too tired id understand if she stayed home. i just dont get it.

its actually pretty simple. *most* females need a dose of drama every once in a while. when is the last time you gave her some? Long time right, since youre in the married mode right now.

 

[bdawson72 5,000+ posts]

Females=the devil

No ****

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

Females=the devil

No ****

hmmmmmm.

 

[savagebee 10+ year member]

I knew Dev would show up and offer his famous woman advice

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

I knew Dev would show up and offer his famous woman advice

????? im just a passer by. throwin in my .02 like everyone else haha.

 

[savagebee 10+ year member]

????? im just a passer by. throwin in my .02 like everyone else haha.

you've got your own special brand of $.02 //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif

 

[JohnnyBlaze1984 10+ year member]

As far as you guys being like a married couple try going on cool dates. There are a lot of interesting places around wherever you live I can guarantee you. Try doing something different like going to the childrens zoo, or a nearby town that you've both never been to, or the airport and watch the planes take off. Theres a million fun things to do with your girlfriend that don't involve sitting at one of your houses, not that this isn't cool, but seriously get out there and mix it up.
Don't be so suspicious of your girl. Relationships are tests of trust. If you can't trust her for one night, then the problems in your relationship don't only lie with her.

There has been some good advice on here posted already, but I cannot stress enough, don't try and get in touch with her tomorrow, let her make the first move. Go out with a couple friends and have a blast. See a movie, or just do something fun out (physical crap like playing basketball is probably the best thing you can do to keep your mind off of her). When you get home play some video games or read a book or watch a favorite show, then go to bed early. If you can do all of that and not worry about her I can guarantee you that you will feel better the next day. You'll probably be much more able to talk to her, and if she didn't call or text you on the day that you were out then it's okay to try and call her the next day. Because if all she needed was some breathing room a whole day would have definitely given her some time to clear her head.

But don't take this too far... one day is more than enough

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[bdawson72 5,000+ posts]

hmmmmmm.

What the hell is that supposed to mean?

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

What the hell is that supposed to mean?

 

[bdawson72 5,000+ posts]

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[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

still cant sleep and i gotta wake up in 2 hours. oh boy gonna be a good day!!!

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

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I GOT 600 BUCKS WHEN I ONLY THOUGHT I WAS GETTING 300!!! Alright things are lookin up..... could just be karma trying to padden the blow of what might take place today ha ha

 

[Rmsanger 10+ year member]

Learn from BW!

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

I have trust issues as well. I just assume the girl is a cheater from the beginning...so I don't get hurt if it comes true. Also, I wouldn't call anyone 20 times.

I call once....then text. If no reply, I do other things.

 

[J3M Concepts 10+ year member]

any update?