Girl Advice

[yne721 10+ year member]

don't forget about the fucking update tomorrow either. now i want to know what happens

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[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

ill keep it updated. just had a long talk with my life long best friend so that helped me ease my mind a little. im just preparing myself for the worst and hoping for the best.

 

[jer_stud56 10+ year member]

The only way I think I've ever found to get over a girl...is to fcck another girl. Get it out of your system and just forget about your ex. I know she's not your ex yet, but this is future reference.

 

I'd had plenty of "relationships" //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/rolleyes.gif.c1fef805e9d1464d377451cd5bc18bfb.gif (more or less hang out and fcck a lot) but really the only way I've ever gotten over TRUE girlfriends is to find another chick to take your mind off the old one.

 

Or do what deerhunt does and fcck a good ol' chubby chick. Nothing wrong with a chubby chick (as long as she isn't fat)

 

You better effing update us tomorrow too. And each day til this shtt is done...boredom ensues otherwise.

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Where the hell is pic of this girl?

pic or two or //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/ban.gif.ce8465566702ef9f72e97e794ed1c86a.gif

 

[yne721 10+ year member]

ill keep it updated. just had a long talk with my life long best friend so that helped me ease my mind a little. im just preparing myself for the worst and hoping for the best.

you're just thinking about it too much. go to sleep. go play some video games.

Worry is a debt paid in advance that might not be owed.

 

[JL Audio 5,000+ posts]

i dunno if you still need words of advice but I read someone's quote on here and it reminded me of this.

"when my favorite sport's team loses I want to hit my gf in the face "

:/ ... well. I got a laugh out of it.

break her off a piece of common sense and leave her with that .. go get some fresh meat.

 

[Goindef154 5,000+ posts]

Didn't read the whole thread, so maybe someone already said this, but she has lied to you before this and probably many times. Sorry to be so blunt, but I guarantee it, and you kind of call her too much, I'm sure that's been said.

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

if you cannot trust her, you definately need to air it out with her, as soon as possible, otherwise your insecurities will eat you up until what you suspect becomes what you "know"regardless of any factual evidence you have.

you need to get your insecurities figured out, sounds like you are very very possessive to call her 20 times in a matter of hours, and that will do nothing but push her away

definately not possessive. i probably exaggerated. probably called her like 5 times cause i legitimately thought maybe she was in a bad reception area and just didnt get the call. like i said 99 percent of the time this girl text back or calls back before the backlight goes off so it was more out of worry for her than being pissed off that she hasnt called.

You just answered your own question, turn off your phone,go out have fun, and clear your head. Talk to her tomorrow or saturday about it.

yeah im trying to do some homework i was supposed to get done right now, but its tough just getting it out of your head. i mean i hope shes really at robins but the thought of where else she could be is eating me up inside. this is a girl that when we first got together made me swear to her thatd wed keep our feelings out in the open and that wed never cheat on each other that she would never do that. she said she hates cheaters more than anything and would break it off before she would ever cheat.

ding ding ding
she may just be pissed @ you, not fuckin around

if shes just pissed @ you, calling her and pestering will not fix it

just chill till you see her again

guarantee you thats easier said then done.

def easier said than done. shes got her phone off anyways so i couldnt call her if i wanted to.

 

[yne721 10+ year member]

i could say the worst thing right now but i'm a decent human being so i'll refrain.

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

i could say the worst thing right now but i'm a decent human being so i'll refrain.

by all means say it. im sure its not anything that hasnt already crossed my mind.

 

[Goindef154 5,000+ posts]

To be honest man, if this one thing makes you wonder whether or not you love her, it doesn't sound like you do. You should love her regardless, not saying you shouldn't care what she did tonight, just saying love and forgiveness are two different things and this one incident shouldn't make you not love her. I'm sure tomorrow things will be cool once you guys talk about it or whenever you talk about it. Just my opinion of course.

 

[thieves 10+ year member]

thats a serious ***** move and some shady shit if she is just gonna turn her phone off like that on you. given the circumstances, and your presented situation. I'd say she is lying beyond her excuse that she thought you would get mad about her hanging out with a "coworker"

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

To be honest man, if this one thing makes you wonder whether or not you love her, it doesn't sound like you do. You should love her regardless, not saying you shouldn't care what she did tonight, just saying love and forgiveness are two different things and this one incident shouldn't make you not love her. I'm sure tomorrow things will be cool once you guys talk about it or whenever you talk about it. Just my opinion of course.

nah this girl is the love of my life. ill never stop loving her. like i said problem is fixable as long as there isnt another guy involved, and she wants to fix things. i honestly didnt think anything was broken. thats why this whole thing caught me by surprise. ive never been jealous about any of her friends, ive never told her she couldnt do anything, why she would think id be mad this time is beyond me.

thats a serious ***** move and some shady shit if she is just gonna turn her phone off like that on you. given the circumstances, and your presented situation. I'd say she is lying beyond her excuse that she thought you would get mad about her hanging out with a "coworker"

a couple of her really close friends over the last like year have moved out of the state and she was really just left with me and my friends. shes pretty shy when it comes to meeting new people and shes been trying to get used to the fact of trying to make new friends. i understand that if a couple people from work were going out and they asked her thatd shed want to go. i even understand that she maybe would want to go without me cause i mean no matter what we all need our space. but what i dont understand is the lying. theres no need for it.

like i said if this is just a little mistake where she thought cause past boyfriends woulda got mad and jealous that i would to then it can be fixed but ive also never given her a reason to think i would be pissed. which brings me to another point why did she really really not want me there.

what really throws me off is this is all coming out of left field. she hasnt been avoiding me, hell SHE made plans for us to be together all weekend, insisted she come over last night when i told her if she was too tired id understand if she stayed home. i just dont get it.

 

[Towncar 10+ year member]

I cant remeber the site off the top of my head, but their is a site where you can track her phone just by her phone number. It will tell you where she is //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif In all honesty though, just talk to her like suggested. then go from there..

 

[Alpineforever 10+ year member]

As far as you guys being like a married couple try going on cool dates. There are a lot of interesting places around wherever you live I can guarantee you. Try doing something different like going to the childrens zoo, or a nearby town that you've both never been to, or the airport and watch the planes take off. Theres a million fun things to do with your girlfriend that don't involve sitting at one of your houses, not that this isn't cool, but seriously get out there and mix it up.

Don't be so suspicious of your girl. Relationships are tests of trust. If you can't trust her for one night, then the problems in your relationship don't only lie with her.

There has been some good advice on here posted already, but I cannot stress enough, don't try and get in touch with her tomorrow, let her make the first move. Go out with a couple friends and have a blast. See a movie, or just do something fun out (physical crap like playing basketball is probably the best thing you can do to keep your mind off of her). When you get home play some video games or read a book or watch a favorite show, then go to bed early. If you can do all of that and not worry about her I can guarantee you that you will feel better the next day. You'll probably be much more able to talk to her, and if she didn't call or text you on the day that you were out then it's okay to try and call her the next day. Because if all she needed was some breathing room a whole day would have definitely given her some time to clear her head.

But don't take this too far... one day is more than enough

 

[Goindef154 5,000+ posts]

nah this girl is the love of my life. ill never stop loving her. like i said problem is fixable as long as there isnt another guy involved, and she wants to fix things. i honestly didnt think anything was broken. thats why this whole thing caught me by surprise. ive never been jealous about any of her friends, ive never told her she couldnt do anything, why she would think id be mad this time is beyond me.

I feel yah man, hope everything works out for yah.