thats what you need to look at. go on a drive to anywhere, whenever i godda talk to my ol lady, i take her to the river...seriously. i live right on the ohio. nobody is there most of the time so theres nothing to worry about. and just talk it out. ask her why she lied, and if she thinks she has to lie to you to do something she wants. teller how you feel about her, example, your thing i quoted. if you really love her you will have no problem telling her and if she loves you she will be honest. just talk it over and go from there. best of luck to yall. and dont listen to these dumb replys man, just look over them.