Girl Advice

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

Alright CA.com im entering the world of advice from forum members. heres my story. ill try and make it short.

Me and my girlfriend have been together for just over 3 years. the entire 3 years have been amazing. shes truly the love of my life and every second has been worth it. for about 3 weeks things have gotten weird. weve kinda turned into that like old married couple that does nothing just hangs out and i talked to her about it. we had a good talk and everything seemed cool.

well tonight when she got off work at like 4 30 she says hey im running into target with Melinda (girl she works with) for a baby shower gift for this girl at work. ill call ya back. bout 2 hours later i text her and ask her whats up. says shes shopping. call her a couple times, text her a couple times and i dont get a response.

bout 10 oclock i call and she picks up. says her phone hasnt rang. i say ok cause ive had that happen before. (getting suspicious cause i called like 20 times) sounds echo like so i assume shes in the bathroom and i say hey where are you sounds weird. she says in the bathroom washing face ill call you when im done.

1 hour goes by i call and instantly get her voice mail. i IM her brother and go hey have ur sis call me i think her phones broke. brother says shes not home. i drive over there and i call her. she goes oh i started talking to mom and im about to go to bed. i say wheres ur car. she goes in the garage. i say well ur bro says ur not home. she goes im in bed cars in the garage, i go, come to the door. she goes, i lied. im at robins.

ive been hanging out with some people from work, i thought youd get mad if i said i wasnt coming over tonight. then i go well when you get home ill be here we gotta talk. she turns her phone off and i wait there an hour and she still hasnt gotten home..........

cliffs: been together 3 years, girl lied about where she was tonight, says with friends, turns her phone off when i catch her. still not home.

advice guys.

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[J3M Concepts 10+ year member]

none...don't let her get away with any excuses...if you know where "Robin" is ...go get her

 

[whammy]

Sounds like you may not be the only one in her life now. Call cheaters, and we want the tape!

But seriously, follow her and see where she actually goes.

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

none...don't let her get away with any excuses...if you know where "Robin" is ...go get her

i know who she is but dont know where she lives nor her phone number. trust me id be there if i did.

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

Sounds like you may not be the only one in her life now. Call cheaters, and we want the tape!
But seriously, follow her and see where she actually goes.

theres no way i could follow her anywhere. my car stands out pretty good. lol would be impossible.

 

[J3M Concepts 10+ year member]

Have a buddy follow her

 

[Mesto 10+ year member]

when she gets home

TRIANGLE CHOKE.

she obviously doesn't respect you if she is going to play these type of games..

 

[J3M Concepts 10+ year member]

play it cool though...tomorrow she will be expecting an attitude and a chat...tell her some b/s about "just worrying about you" or some shit.... then have a buddy follow acouple times .... or start screwing Robin on the side

payback's a bit.ch that likes ATM

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

is there honestly any chance that she really did just blow off some steam hanging out with people from work and thought id be mad if she just wanted a night to herself?

im just really scared that if there is another guy i might really fly off the handle and kill/ hurt him maybe her....... last girl i dated was a shiesty bi tch that lied to me all the time and i kept taking her back. the guy she was messing around with i almost killed cause i put a dent in his hood with his head.......

he threatened me first so i didnt care but still.......could get into some shit for doing that stuff.

 

[MyFartsStink 10+ year member]

Okay, she has rough ***, then gets busted on the face, you call when she is washing it off. She swallowed some of the *** and cant get it out of her breath so she didnt want to see you. Thats what I can think of. But you can expect a break up soon, and best advice I have is dont get all emo and start thinking really shitty.

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

This is already some of the worst advice one could offer to someone else...

 

[snfsh79077 10+ year member]

yea have a freind follow her with you in the back seat or something

 

[Steven206Seattl 10+ year member]

Very suspicious. I stick to friends with benefits //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

If you can't trust her anymore, don't go spying on her. Tell her to man up, or you have no business being with her anymore, unless you want to put up with the lying bullshit. Personally, I wouldn't want to though.

 

[DaGh0st 5,000+ posts]

Ask her to be honest with you and ask her what happened.....if not punch that bish in the face.