Girl Advice! What You Think?

[Astyl 10+ year member]

This isnt some sappy love story or me venting, just looking for some solid advice from people that have been down the same road and know what the deal is.

Im 21 years old, just graduated from college and have a girlfriend of 11 months now and things are going good, she is 23 years old and just got a steady full time career job so shes all set. I have yet to find a career job and am still doing random jobs here and there until i can find something in my field, im a criminal justice major and wanna find a cop job somewere.

I think a lot of the problems stem from the fact that all my friends are also 21 years old and all of them are single, and im the only one with a girlfriend right now. Every weekend all we do is party our ***** off and go to clubs ETC, my friends hook up with girls etc and dont have a care in the world, we are all 21 and who could give ashit right?

Well me on the other hand, it seems like everywere i look people are talking MARRIAGE between me and my girlfriend, and this scares the **** out of me, all my parents talk about is how we should get married and we are perfect for each other etc

I will tell you right now that she IS the type of girl that is good for settling down with, shes extremely level headed, very logical of a thinker, extremely good with her finances due to the fact that shes a math teacher and has a bachelors in mathematics, has a solid job, can cook good, etc and is generally always there for me like any good companion would be

The thought of settling down right now scares the hell out of me, and even though i know she would be a great wife, at the same time im also 21 years old right now, im only young once and i feel that im "missing something" in my life right now

quite frankly, i feel like i should be single, party my *** off, and live life because im young right now and i feel like i need to get this phase out of my system so that i can settle down with someone later on in life and be content, i feel like if i settle down right now without ever experiencing my early 20s as a single guy that i may have regrets later in life like i missed out on something

am i being stupid or is this a logical concern?

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[SplAffair 10+ year member]

whats for sale?

 

[G.W.Kush]

i cant beleive i lost the 13 post count on newest members list just to say.....

PICS OR F^CKING BAN

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[JimJ 5,000+ posts]

i feel like if i settle down right now without ever experiencing my early 20s as a single guy that i may have regrets later in life like i missed out on something

But you're not a single guy now, correct?

Or am I missing something here...

 

[chaunb3400 10+ year member]

Just hook up with girls and you will be fine

 

[michaellane 5,000+ posts]

i would say stupid just because think of how many other females you dated in your life that werent worth crap. im 23 right now and got a peice of crap GF. i keep her just for some company since ive moved to a new state but trust me you can either party then spend a few years when youve settled down looking for a good chick or get a head start. ive slept with a good amount of girls and i can honestly say good *** goes way past random *** with random girls. now its fun humping random girls but you cant beat a good solid f.uck. so if everything is good to go and the *** is good then dood dont mess it up. just my 2cents

 

[michaellane 5,000+ posts]

pics also...and wrong section

 

[Astyl 10+ year member]

But you're not a single guy now, correct?
Or am I missing something here...

Im not single right now and i dont cheat, but i feel like if i dont go out and live my early 20s as a single guy that i will regret it later in life like i missed out on something

 

[SplAffair 10+ year member]

Just hook up with girls and you will be fine

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[pokey_159 10+ year member]

i think we need pics! and mybe a poll on this!!

 

[infamous_e46 5,000+ posts]

 

[SplAffair 10+ year member]

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[mihklo 10+ year member]

dont be an idiot. is she worth losing just to be able to hook up with a few more chicks? ultimately you're the only one that can decide that.

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

your girl doesnt like to go out and party with you guys? does she care that you are partying? to me it seems like the only thing you are "missing out on" is nailing other girls. which if you are in love that wouldnt matter.

if shes not giving you a hard time about partying with your friends i dont see what the problem is.

 

[Astyl 10+ year member]

There are other conflicts that go on in any relationship, for instance i LOVE cars ETC and she is the exact opposite she could care less about any car shit whatsoever, and she thinks im an idiot for even spending a dime on any aftermarket car stuff

For instance when i first met the girl, i had my old system which was a Fi BTL and it hit 148db sealed up on the dash with a termlab, i was pretty proud about my system being that i love this shit, so i give her a demo and the first thing she does is *****es me out about it being to loud and calls me stupid for wasting my money on stuff like that and ever since i never played my radio past like volume 10 with her in the car