Girl advice... lame

[Bimmerdriver 10+ year member]

So there is this really cute fun girl that I like that I am trying to court.

Now for a little background

She is pretty inexperienced with relationships, thinks that guys don't like her (even though plenty do) etc.

Few weeks ago had her over to my house with a bunch of other girls, and we started drinking and later on that night we ended up in a bed together cuddling etc. talking. She was def. all over me, talking about how this other girl liked me and that she felt bad etc. Didn't hook up or anything just sort of cuddled for awhile.

So now im like really interested in her but she seems to act differently around me. I have hung out with her plenty since then but never really trying to make moves on her. I guess she likes this other guy, and i need to win her back.

Any tips on winning her back? She is pretty busy soccer work etc, should i keep trying to find time for us to hang out or just sorta play it cool and not pursue? Although I seriously want this girl.....

I know she has the ability to like me cause she was all over me just a few weeks ago. Any advice?

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[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

She may have been all over you because she was drinking.

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

Girls do not drink the same way guys do.

I really believe females are inferior to men at composing themselves under the influence of alcohol.

 

[9512ds 5,000+ posts]

true statement flip

 

[IgnoreMe 5,000+ posts]

if you seriously talk like that. give up now, or get her drunk 24/7.

a girl im trying to court? wtf? renaissance?

 

[eggyhustles 10+ year member]

she was drunk..you got lucky...shes acting different around you sober because simply she just doesn't see you that way..your hanging out with her and not making moves is making things worse for you..your being a friend instead of a love interest..your gonna get yourself into the friendzone which you DO NOT want..i suggest you man up and start makin moves

 

[Geezerpoop 10+ year member]

Girls are needy tards, you might have been friend-stamped by cuddling with her and bed and yadda yadda. Either try to get with her when ur drunk again, or talk to her about it when ur sober. That can be difficult but its better than sitting around thinking about it all the time, and a lot better than getting flamed by a bunch of people on this forum.

 

[Bimmerdriver 10+ year member]

yeah i mean i feel all that about her being drunk and stuff. But she was completely breaking it down about how her friend really likes me, and she feels bad. I also wasn't pressuring her at all, like trying ot hook up with because i knew i liked this girl a lot.

Like she was over at my house just a few nights ago and we made dinner and then we were watchign academy awards and sorta snuggling but no like direct contact. Its just this weird grey zone and i don't want to mess up whatever chance i have left cause she is the right girl

 

[Bimmerdriver 10+ year member]

and I also know not to get stuck in friend zone..... WHICH I KNOW SUCKS..........

 

[Bimmerdriver 10+ year member]

if you seriously talk like that. give up now, or get her drunk 24/7.
a girl im trying to court? wtf? renaissance?

was a joke man

 

[eggyhustles 10+ year member]

Like she was over at my house just a few nights ago and we made dinner and then we were watchign academy awards and sorta snuggling but no like direct contact. Its just this weird grey zone and i don't want to mess up whatever chance i have left cause she is the right girl

wow..im only 15 years old and know more about women then you do..no offense but your acting like a puss...girls like confidence and aggression...y u think girls like bad guys? because they do what they please...you need to start makin moves

 

[mokedaddy 5,000+ posts]

and I also know not to get stuck in friend zone..... WHICH I KNOW SUCKS..........

sorry dude, too late for that one.

 

[TylerBD12 10+ year member]

and I also know not to get stuck in friend zone..... WHICH I KNOW SUCKS..........

Too late brother...

 

[IgnoreMe 5,000+ posts]

yeah i mean i feel all that about her being drunk and stuff. But she was completely breaking it down about how her friend really likes me, and she feels bad. I also wasn't pressuring her at all, like trying ot hook up with because i knew i liked this girl a lot.
Like she was over at my house just a few nights ago and we made dinner and then we were watchign academy awards and sorta snuggling but no like direct contact. Its just this weird grey zone and i don't want to mess up whatever chance i have left cause she is the right girl

kinda sounds like a friend...kinda sounds like she's interested and maybe shares the same fears as you.

i suggest you step it up, now, or you will miss the chance to hit it.

 

[crunktimes.com 5,000+ posts]

Your problem is you are a 'nice guy' and did not make your intentions known that night. The problem is that chicks look at 'nice guys' like cute little puppy dogs, the issue is chicks don't want to fuck puppy dogs they want to fuck the alpha male.

Probably too late to do anything now just take it as experience and grow a sack before you let another piece of puss throw you in the friend zone so easily.