for those that care about what happens in my life.

[neonrt 10+ year member]

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i'm the ca.com role model.

corrected.

 

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

you did the right thing. imo.

Honestly, to have done anything else under those circumstances would have been selfish and irresponsible. The only time you will hear anyone disagree is when some some numb nuts is trying to take a cheap shot on the internet.

 

[iceteebone 5,000+ posts]

corrected.

i agree with above correction.

 

[neonrt 10+ year member]

Honestly, to have done anything else under those circumstances would have been selfish and irresponsible. The only time you will hear anyone disagree is when some some numb nuts is trying to take a cheap shot on the internet.

exactly.

 

[neonrt 10+ year member]

i agree with above correction.

i figured you would.//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

 

[iceteebone 5,000+ posts]

i figured you would.//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

i'm quite agreeable. hell i agreed to unprotected pre-marital *** as an 18 year old //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif

 

[MikeofTulsa Moderator]

Awesome man. Good luck...
Learn that kid RIGHT!!!!

How old is he?

he's 4

you don't even know half of the full story behind this, so the fact that you think you can comment on the situation is appauling.
here i'll make a timeline of events for you, since you seem to have so much interest in my personal life. Hopefully i'm your new role model.

May 2003- Baby is conceived, senior year of High school

May 2003- Hours after baby is conceived, we break up

June 2003- I graduate and leave for Detroit, loosing all contact with said woman

March 2006- Back up north and run into ex with a 2 year old child. woman claims it's mine

April 2006- Paternity test prove its mine. I meet with woman and all parties involved

May 2006- Woman flees to North Carolina. apparently she is gonna go to UNC. you'll find out later this was false.

December 2006- She is back in Michigan. as stated in may, UNC was false. she wanted to get away from me. I also meet her husband, who had been with the kid since birth.

March 2007- My parental rights are officially gone and new husband has custody. Now the mother doesn't want me to be part of the kid's life, the kid has a good father, so isn't in the kid's best interest to be raised by 2 parents instead of 2.5?

you still haven't even got half the story but that should wet your appetite for the time being.

i think you have done the right thing in this situation. but i definatly suggest being a part of her life if she wishes you to be in the future.

i put the kid's interest ahead of mine. I didn't know the ex was pregnant. as soon as i graduated i left the area for awhile. i didn't find out till the kid was 2 years old. when i found out, i could've just not bothered, but i took the initiative to find her and talk to her, and really after all the hassle we all came to the conclusion this was best.

i agree

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i'm just trying to be the ca.com role model.

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[joetama 5,000+ posts]

he's 4

Just old enough to start learning about audio... //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/up2something.gif.dd110ecf3ae4b76050d87598f2f8de7c.gif

 

[IamDeMan 5,000+ posts]

i'm quite agreeable. hell i agreed to unprotected pre-marital *** as an 18 year old //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif

Would you agree to it now? I'm free tonight. No seriously, I'm not charging a dime.

 

[MikeofTulsa Moderator]

Maybe this semi-good news will loosen the stick in your *** now //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/thumbsup.gif.3287b36ca96645a13a43aff531f37f02.gif

not likly //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif

Good to see you finally have something positive to report rather than complaining about something, Mike. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gifIt's a welcome change and good luck with the new permanent addition to your household. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif

thanks.

 

[MikeofTulsa Moderator]

Just old enough to start learning about audio... //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/up2something.gif.dd110ecf3ae4b76050d87598f2f8de7c.gif

he's already starting to become a gamer. he wants to play games on the 360 all the time

 

[iceteebone 5,000+ posts]

Would you agree to it now? I'm free tonight. No seriously, I'm not charging a dime.

yes i would.

i have a problem

as ca.com role model i cannot allow this to happen

i need a sandwich

 

[joetama 5,000+ posts]

he's already starting to become a gamer. he wants to play games on the 360 all the time

Audio > Games...

Games you don't really learn much, but in audio you learn all sorts of things. From basic electronics to problem solving skills.

 

[Pl8er 5,000+ posts]

Good things for good people. Karma my friend. Glad to hear it worked out for you!

 

[neonrt 10+ year member]

Audio > Games...
Games you don't really learn much, but in audio you learn all sorts of things. From basic electronics to problem solving skills.

i concur.