Falling for another girl?

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

nigglet

grandwizard

 

[fatryan 5,000+ posts]

Man this sucks ***.
Ok.. So I've been with my GF for two years now. She lives about 20 miles from me.. so we get to see each other weekly. (since I work & shes still in school) I love her to death & have actually considered asking her to marry me. As of late though she has really seemed immature & possesive and my feelings for her haven't been as strong.

About two months ago.. when I started my new job.. I kinda started flirting and interacting with other girls more. Esp. the ones I work with. Well anyways, there is this one girl in paticular that I can say.. I have VERY strong feelings for. We just have so much in common.. & really hit it off everytime we talk. We pretty much flirt on a daily basis.

Well I kinda helped her out with some BF problems she was having.. and she finally left her bf today after she found out he was cheating on her. I feel really bad, because it's like every second I'm thinking about this girl I work with & not my actual GF. I really like my job and shit.. and I wanna keep it real. I never thought this woulda happened.. esp a month ago on our 2 year anniversry.

I really don't know what to do.. If I'm having mixed feelings or what.. if this is just a test? I just don't wanna make any mistakes! I won't cheat on my GF.. but seriously.. if these feelings are for real.. I think I need to do something?

This girl I work with has actually asked me if I wanted to move in with her & shit.. She works two jobs and goes to college.. I dunno.. its just really getting on my dam.n nerves that I come home from work or w/e.. and I'm thinking about her!! Ahh! I don't look at this whole thing in a bad way.. or anything.. but I think I'm just a little scared.. I don't want to hurt anyones feelings.. esp my gfs!

What do you think I should do? Has anyone ever been in this situation? Like I said.. I was already disapointed with my GF.. She hardly ever let's me hang with my friends anymore.. shes still in highschool (Junior) & I'm really fed up with her dad's crap.

Help! //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif

Oh yeeeah man, that must **** to have 2 *****es all over you! GOD! im so glad i have NO *****es all over me. its so sweet...//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/rolleyes.gif.c1fef805e9d1464d377451cd5bc18bfb.gif

 

[dustinr 10+ year member]

Thanks everyone.. for your help/comments

I spent this weekend with my gf..alone. It gave us the time to talk about alot of things we haven't got to sit down and talk about in awhile.. I also told her about this other girl from work.. and how I felt about her. She wasn't too happy at first.. but she thanked be for being honest.

In all honesty.. I really don't know what I was thinking. I love my gf to death.. & now.. I personally don't see any reason why I should leave her.. esp for another girl I hardly know.

Thanks again everyone!

Dustin

 

[bri487 5,000+ posts]

i have been with my girl for two years too. we just had some tough times and actually broke up for a few days until i couldnt take it anymore. i thought that is what i wanted but after it was reality, i didnt want that anymore. all i could think about was her and how much i would give up just to be with her again. so my advice to you is to make sure this is what you really want. maybe if you arent sure talk to her and see if she would be up to take a break for a while and see how you do without her.

 

[Trancer 10+ year member]

Good deal. Im glad everything went smooth. Best of luck to you and your gf

 

[bri487 5,000+ posts]

i guess i was a little late. anyway, i ended up in the same situation as you. i woudnt give her up for anything.

 

[Trancer 10+ year member]

Oh yeah, I forgot to add in...

Once again...

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[dustinr 10+ year member]

Good deal. Im glad everything went smooth. Best of luck to you and your gf

Thanks again for your help bro.. I hope everything goes smooth too, lol.

i guess i was a little late. anyway, i ended up in the same situation as you. i woudnt give her up for anything.

Same here man, you get to know someone so well.. for so long.. then just stop talking to them all of a sudden.. It just doesn't seem right. I wouldn't give my gf up for anything either. I guess this was just another one of life's tests.

Oh yeah, I forgot to add in...
Once again...

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Haha, well gimme a few days and I'll try to take a few pics of her.. All I have is school pics.. not sure if she'd be too happy if I put those up.

 

[KngOfThePkngLot 5,000+ posts]

Thanks again for your help bro.. I hope everything goes smooth too, lol.


Same here man, you get to know someone so well.. for so long.. then just stop talking to them all of a sudden.. It just doesn't seem right. I wouldn't give my gf up for anything either. I guess this was just another one of life's tests.

Haha, well gimme a few days and I'll try to take a few pics of her.. All I have is school pics.. not sure if she'd be too happy if I put those up.

screw the school pics....we want the ***** ones:naughty:

 

[dustinr 10+ year member]

screw the school pics....we want the ***** ones:naughty:

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Sorry bro.. but she doesn't even give me ***** pictures. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crying.gif.ec0ebefe590df0251476573bc49e46d8.gif

 

[Trancer 10+ year member]

Thats why you take them like I have with my gf

 

[KngOfThePkngLot 5,000+ posts]

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Sorry bro.. but she doesn't even give me ***** pictures. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crying.gif.ec0ebefe590df0251476573bc49e46d8.gif

your supposed to take them:laugh:

 

[dustinr 10+ year member]

your supposed to take them:laugh:

Thats what I ment.. she won't let me take any of her *****..

BUT..

what if......

I got her really..

DRUNK!

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[Trancer 10+ year member]

... and called up that other girl?

 

[KngOfThePkngLot 5,000+ posts]

Thats what I ment.. she won't let me take any of her *****..
BUT..

what if......

I got her really..

DRUNK!

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*ding* *ding* *ding* that would definitely work:laugh: see if you can get her and her best friend ***** togeather if she is drunk enough:hilariou: