Falling for another girl?

[dustinr 10+ year member]

Man this sucks ***.

Ok.. So I've been with my GF for two years now. She lives about 20 miles from me.. so we get to see each other weekly. (since I work & shes still in school) I love her to death & have actually considered asking her to marry me. As of late though she has really seemed immature & possesive and my feelings for her haven't been as strong.

About two months ago.. when I started my new job.. I kinda started flirting and interacting with other girls more. Esp. the ones I work with. Well anyways, there is this one girl in paticular that I can say.. I have VERY strong feelings for. We just have so much in common.. & really hit it off everytime we talk. We pretty much flirt on a daily basis.

Well I kinda helped her out with some BF problems she was having.. and she finally left her bf today after she found out he was cheating on her. I feel really bad, because it's like every second I'm thinking about this girl I work with & not my actual GF. I really like my job and shit.. and I wanna keep it real. I never thought this woulda happened.. esp a month ago on our 2 year anniversry.

I really don't know what to do.. If I'm having mixed feelings or what.. if this is just a test? I just don't wanna make any mistakes! I won't cheat on my GF.. but seriously.. if these feelings are for real.. I think I need to do something?

This girl I work with has actually asked me if I wanted to move in with her & shit.. She works two jobs and goes to college.. I dunno.. its just really getting on my dam.n nerves that I come home from work or w/e.. and I'm thinking about her!! Ahh! I don't look at this whole thing in a bad way.. or anything.. but I think I'm just a little scared.. I don't want to hurt anyones feelings.. esp my gfs!

What do you think I should do? Has anyone ever been in this situation? Like I said.. I was already disapointed with my GF.. She hardly ever let's me hang with my friends anymore.. shes still in highschool (Junior) & I'm really fed up with her dad's crap.

Help! //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif

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[dustinr 10+ year member]

You're ****ing 18. Quit worrying about marrying *****es and moving in with *****es.

Actually I'm 19.. and I'm sorry you've never felt this way about anyone.

 

[squeak9798 5,000+ posts]

You need to realize the distinction between infatuation and true love.

 

[2kchevy06civic 5,000+ posts]

I think you need to reflect on the good you have had. Your g/f and you sounds like your just going through a bump and there is just a girl you're talking to that's making good conversation. I don't think you should let a girl of 2 years go just b/c your going through a weird stage. I dunno, I think you should sit down and really think what you want to do b/c no matter what kind of advise you get, you're the one making the decision.

 

[JAZN 5,000+ posts]

You need to realize the distinction between infatuation and true love.

x2. in long relationships, you sometimes go through periods of boredom where you either need to either spice things up or take a break. make a choice. you're still young.

 

[Randy Savage 5,000+ posts]

Just take the time to think about it. See if your girlfriends demeanor of late is just something she is going through, or if she has gotten too comfortable with the relationship, or if she has just had a change in her feelings. Maybe you and your GF either need some time off, or some time alone with each other, away from everyone else.

If that doesn't work, FHITA.

 

[jimmclrk1 10+ year member]

Actually I'm 19.. and I'm sorry you've never felt this way about anyone.

What the hell are you feeling? //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/rolleyes.gif.c1fef805e9d1464d377451cd5bc18bfb.gif

All I heard was a bunch of bullshit about how you want to stay with your girlfriend but you are considering moving in with another. That's horseshit. I'm glad I haven't had to feel with shit like that.

 

[skierxx5556 10+ year member]

Just go with the new girl...

 

[dustinr 10+ year member]

I think you need to reflect on the good you have had. Your g/f and you sounds like your just going through a bump and there is just a girl you're talking to that's making good conversation. I don't think you should let a girl of 2 years go just b/c your going through a weird stage. I dunno, I think you should sit down and really think what you want to do b/c no matter what kind of advise you get, you're the one making the decision.

Its actually quite hard to even think about the good times my gf & I have had in the past! It's more then just good conversation.. it's chemistry & honestly.. (I hate to believe this) I have more in common with this girl than my actual GF. I know it's my decision.. thats what sucks! //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif ****IT wheres the easy button!

 

[Gauntlet 5,000+ posts]

Wait, this stupid slore is a junior in high school? And you've been with her for 2 years? And considered asking her to marry you? And you're letting her control you and not hang out with your friends?

 

[2kchevy06civic 5,000+ posts]

I dunno what to tell you man. It sounds like you enjoy this new girl more then the girl you are with. I think I'd pick my g/f of 2 years over someone I have been talking to for a while. Maybe you should sit down and be very honest by just saying "Is everything between us ok? Because it just seems like we are going through a weird stage and I need to know how you feel."

also you said she won't let you hang out with your friends? Man, lay the pimp hand down you need to set boundaries. Say, I'll hang out with my friends for a little while and then we can do something. Don't let her control you, lay your foot down.

 

[jimmclrk1 10+ year member]

Atleast you know the right place to go to deal with your love life. Car audio forums are full of people that truly know you as a person, and can help you to make the best choices concerning women, family life, financial issues, and even religion! Why waste time thinking for yourself when you can ask total strangers to do it for you?

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[dustinr 10+ year member]

Just take the time to think about it. See if your girlfriends demeanor of late is just something she is going through, or if she has gotten too comfortable with the relationship, or if she has just had a change in her feelings. Maybe you and your GF either need some time off, or some time alone with each other, away from everyone else.
If that doesn't work, FHITA.

I've kinda felt this way for awhile now. I've kept it all inside me until now.. I haven't told a soul.. cause honestly.. I think people would think I am going crazy~ I think your right though.. I'm gonna try to arrange You/Me only day this weekend.. and see how things go, it might take some of the stress off.. who knows.

 

[skierxx5556 10+ year member]

how does his d*ck taste?....





sorry but i had to say it

Come on man im trying to help this kid out here...

 

[Randy Savage 5,000+ posts]

I'm gonna try to arrange You/Me only day this weekend.. and see how things go, it might take some of the stress off.. who knows.

Where are we going?

I would appreciate a reach-around, it's the least you can do.

Thank you.