Falling for another girl?

[dustinr 10+ year member]

Sometimes I wish I didn't have to worry about getting attatched. Just go around f'ing every peice of *** I saw.. not having to commit to anything.

 

[Pistonsfan70 10+ year member]

Change things up with her. I am not sure if this is for you but I only see my g/f every other day and on the days we don't hang out, we talk only briefly because we both need our space. We've been dating for nearly 4 years and have had to deal the long distance crap (8 hour drive for a few months) so we've been through alot. But you have to tell her to trust you or get rid of her. Checking up on you is another way of saying she does not trust you!!

 

[dustinr 10+ year member]

Change things up with her. I am not sure if this is for you but I only see my g/f every other day and on the days we don't hang out, we talk only briefly because we both need our space. We've been dating for nearly 4 years and have had to deal the long distance crap (8 hour drive for a few months) so we've been through alot. But you have to tell her to trust you or get rid of her. Checking up on you is another way of saying she does not trust you!!

I really hate the long distance part.. It totally kills me on gas & as selfish as my gf can be.. I still "HAVE" to go see here.. whether I'm worn the hell out from work or not. I really believe there is a lack of trust in our relationship atm.. and maybe I should ask her whats up with that aswell. Thanks.

 

[Trancer 10+ year member]

Man, here is my 2 cents. All of my friends, family, co-workers, and I have already know. We have all been in the situation. A girl in Highschool is going to cheat on you. It has happened to me and everyone else in the world. It happends. Usualy when the other person starts changing their behavior, its time to start checkin in with them on whats going on. At time it means that person has done something wrong to you, so to protect themselves, they start checking in on you or just simply bringing the idea to the table that you might be cheating on her. Its hard to put it in words my man. My cousin once told me, who is 9 years older and wiser: Its First love my man, it will break off. One month later, it happened. Dated her for 9 months. My first love. Its aight. Im much happier now with my gf now. Sorry, had to bring another side of the conversation to the table

What I advise you to do, not to snoop, but rather see if she is up to anything. If she isnt. Then you got yourself a good girl there so far. But remember, girls can get just as bored as guys. Maybe she is trying to push you away? Maybe she is trying to keep you closer. Just see if she is trying to figure it out. Go plan something with your buddies like a vacation man. It helps. When my girl and I were at each other constantly, we took a break. It works wonders man. Just dont do anything stupid on the break if you want to keep her.

 

[Trancer 10+ year member]

She knows I have a GF.. and they have actually met.. lol I agree with you that I should talk it over with my GF first though.. but shit man.. hopefully it won't stir a bunch of shit up.. I can see it now.. Calling my work every hour to check in with me~ //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/mad.gif.c18f003ab0ef8a0d9c27ca78d77a6392.gif !~!!!!!!!

Thats bad news man. If you wanted to break it off with your girl, wooo.. good luck keepin the relationship. Girls are evil when it comes to this

 

[Trancer 10+ year member]

Oh and no way was I implying that your girl was cheating on you. Just from the experiences I have seen and even been through, just trying to open another window for you to check out my man.

 

[bigbangtheory 5,000+ posts]

Well................

a) Never date someone you work with.

B) Never F**k someone you work with.

C) Take my advice as I have done the 2 above hence why I have a shitty job now! //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif

 

[Trancer 10+ year member]

Well................a) Never date someone you work with.

B) Never F**k someone you work with.

C) Take my advice as I have done the 2 above hence why I have a shitty job now! //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif

I have done both of those. B) In repeated accounts

 

[OldManTod 10+ year member]

Listen yo 9 times outta 10 this approach doesn't work, but that 10th time it's magical, talk to both of them about a three-way, you know a fuzzy meat sandwich (and your the meat)...

T

 

[Untouchable11 10+ year member]

Yeah man.. and it's even worse when I do get to chill with my friends! She calls me like every hour to check in on me! God its like have another mother or something.. All of my friends diss me b/c of it.. & it really gets on my nerves! //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/mad.gif.c18f003ab0ef8a0d9c27ca78d77a6392.gifAlso.. do you think I should let my GF aware of whats going on inside me? Should I tell her about this other girl?

Yeah man, you need to tell her.. If you love her as much as you say you do, she deserves to know. I went through this about a month ago... I have been dating this girl for about a year and a half, and I started talking to my ex again that I dated off and on for two years, who is best friends with my current girlfriend... I told my girlfriend how I was feeling and things did nothing but get better. Me and my girlfriend are closer now, and I actually think it made us stronger... Do the right thing...

 

[Eugenics 5,000+ posts]

love>lust

if you expect to have a great relationship you have to overcome things like this

 

[RandyJ 10+ year member]

Well I am in a long ditance relationship right now, I believe longer than any of yooz guys have ever experienced. And shit is hard, especially since her parents can no longer afford to buy her classes and pay for tuition so she can graduate early, and she wants to stay another year, sooo, 2years apart. Im confident things will work out. And as to the person who said a highschool girl will most likeyl cheat, I feel that if her feelings are true and if you value the time, effort, commitment and everythign else you have put in your relationship thus far, she will not.

And I strongly agree with Eugenics, lust will always be there, will it be valued enough by you to replace what you and your girl have/had or could have? Do you really want to end two years and start brand new with some hot piece of *** you just met?

 

[skeptikal Premium Member]

dustin you are in the same situation as me girlfriend is still a junior and i just started college. I dont know why you are talkin about marriage already tho. I don't think my girlfriend has ever heard me say that word.

Here's what you do man (ok that girl from work or whatever likes you right. But you are in love with your girl that you got now) When you aren't with your girlfriend start hanging out with the other girl just to see what she's like you know. Get a feel for her (not feel on her) and see what she's about. I've kicked it with the other girl on many occasions (just me & her) and I personally found it to be not what I wanted. I don't know if that makes sense or not but it's just what I did.

 

[RandyJ 10+ year member]

I've kicked it with the other girl on many occasions (just me & her) and I personally found it to be not what I wanted. I don't know if that makes sense or not but it's just what I did.

same here

 

[Eugenics 5,000+ posts]

nigglet