Falling for another girl?

[jimmclrk1 10+ year member]

c'mon man everyone needs some advice...and how gay would you feel talking to your friends about this stuff....

Here's a brilliant plan. Talk to the people involved in the situation. He needs to talk to his **** girlfriend and stop being such a ***** at life. The two of them need to work their shit out. If he has honestly considered marrying her, he should be able to talk to her about their relationship.

 

[dustinr 10+ year member]

your going to lose the girl you love, date the girl at work, get fired from your job, break up with the girl you work with, and wish you never lost what you had in the first place...your feelings havent been the same because you have started to talk to another girl and go back through the process of getting to know someone and falling in love with them only to be in the same place that you are in now....relationships never have the feeling that they "used" to have in the beginning, but thats just because your so used to it....but i guarantee once that feelig turns into the "heartbroken" feeling your going to get from losing the girl you love just so you can get with the girl you "lust" for.

I know.. thats the bad part! I don't want this to get in between my job! But if I am really questioning my love already at this point.. whats gonna happen 10-15 years from now when i'm not feelin happy? I want to be happy with the person I'm with & make no mistakes. I know wutcha mean with the begininng feelings for a girl again..I know this is just more then feelings though.. or I wouldn't have this problem! Blah.. I'm gonna try to spend the weekend with my GF and see how things go.. Hopefully I can put this other girl aside.. and work some things out!

 

[dustinr 10+ year member]

Wait, this stupid slore is a junior in high school? And you've been with her for 2 years? And considered asking her to marry you? And you're letting her control you and not hang out with your friends?

lol. Sounds stupid doesn't it? I don't like someone controling my life. Esp. someone who hasn't even made it out of highschool yet! She's just looking out for me though.. I know she loves me & doesn't want me doing anything stupid!

 

[skierxx5556 10+ year member]

I know.. thats the bad part! I don't want this to get in between my job! But if I am really questioning my love already at this point.. whats gonna happen 10-15 years from now when i'm not feelin happy? I want to be happy with the person I'm with & make no mistakes. I know wutcha mean with the begininng feelings for a girl again..I know this is just more then feelings though.. or I wouldn't have this problem! Blah.. I'm gonna try to spend the weekend with my GF and see how things go.. Hopefully I can put this other girl aside.. and work some things out!

If something was ment to happen it will happen dont try and force shit just go with flow...

 

[dustinr 10+ year member]

I dunno what to tell you man. It sounds like you enjoy this new girl more then the girl you are with. I think I'd pick my g/f of 2 years over someone I have been talking to for a while. Maybe you should sit down and be very honest by just saying "Is everything between us ok? Because it just seems like we are going through a weird stage and I need to know how you feel."
also you said she won't let you hang out with your friends? Man, lay the pimp hand down you need to set boundaries. Say, I'll hang out with my friends for a little while and then we can do something. Don't let her control you, lay your foot down.

Yeah man.. and it's even worse when I do get to chill with my friends! She calls me like every hour to check in on me! God its like have another mother or something.. All of my friends diss me b/c of it.. & it really gets on my nerves! //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/mad.gif.c18f003ab0ef8a0d9c27ca78d77a6392.gif

Also.. do you think I should let my GF aware of whats going on inside me? Should I tell her about this other girl?

 

[jimmclrk1 10+ year member]

Yeah man.. and it's even worse when I do get to chill with my friends! She calls me like every hour to check in on me! God its like have another mother or something.. All of my friends diss me b/c of it.. & it really gets on my nerves! //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/mad.gif.c18f003ab0ef8a0d9c27ca78d77a6392.gifAlso.. do you think I should let my GF aware of whats going on inside me? Should I tell her about this other girl?

What I think you should do is keep ignoring my posts. I think I've already told you that you need to talk to her.

 

[skierxx5556 10+ year member]

Yeah man.. and it's even worse when I do get to chill with my friends! She calls me like every hour to check in on me! God its like have another mother or something.. All of my friends diss me b/c of it.. & it really gets on my nerves! //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/mad.gif.c18f003ab0ef8a0d9c27ca78d77a6392.gifAlso.. do you think I should let my GF aware of whats going on inside me? Should I tell her about this other girl?

You should def tell her whats up dont keep shit from her thats just wrong.

 

[dustinr 10+ year member]

c'mon man everyone needs some advice...and how gay would you feel talking to your friends about this stuff....

I have friends I would consider talking to about this.. but shit.. I'd really like to keep it on the down lo.. you know how fast shit spreads around here? It's crazy.

 

[dustinr 10+ year member]

Atleast you know the right place to go to deal with your love life. Car audio forums are full of people that truly know you as a person, and can help you to make the best choices concerning women, family life, financial issues, and even religion! Why waste time thinking for yourself when you can ask total strangers to do it for you?

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Hey man.. I know where your coming from.. I know this isn't the best place for some of lifes struggles.. but It's 12:40 A.M here and I'm losing sleep over this. I just needed to speak my mind.. really.

 

[2kchevy06civic 5,000+ posts]

should you tell her? I think you should just say I've been talking with a girl and it's really put a test on me. What I mean is, it's made me think about us and how are relationship isn't what it used to be. How do you feel? I'm not saying I like this girl, I'm just saying that it's really making me think.

That's the best way I can word it, I'm not really sure how you can say something like that. It should come to you, and being honest is probably the key.

 

[dustinr 10+ year member]

Here's a brilliant plan. Talk to the people involved in the situation. He needs to talk to his **** girlfriend and stop being such a ***** at life. The two of them need to work their shit out. If he has honestly considered marrying her, he should be able to talk to her about their relationship.

Due to the lack of communication my gf and I have been dealing with.. it is kinda hard to just sit and talk about something like this. I don't want to get her worked up.. she has already had a pretty rough life(her mom died, she pretty much raised her siblings).. I will think things through and spend some quality time with her before I actually make any decisions.. I just needed some good advice. Which I gotten.. thanks alot guys!

 

[dustinr 10+ year member]

Where are we going?
I would appreciate a reach-around, it's the least you can do.

Thank you.

Type R.

 

[dustinr 10+ year member]

should you tell her? I think you should just say I've been talking with a girl and it's really put a test on me. What I mean is, it's made me think about us and how are relationship isn't what it used to be. How do you feel? I'm not saying I like this girl, I'm just saying that it's really making me think.

That's the best way I can word it, I'm not really sure how you can say something like that. It should come to you, and being honest is probably the key.

Maybe I should let this other girl be aware of what I'm going through aswell? Or would that do me any good? Who knows.. maybe she feels totally different about me.. I doubt it though.

Thanks for the help man.

 

[2kchevy06civic 5,000+ posts]

Tell the other girl? I think you should tell her you have a g/f. That should say enough really. lol

I think you should talk with your g/f first though......see what she says and then go from there.

 

[dustinr 10+ year member]

Tell the other girl? I think you should tell her you have a g/f. That should say enough really. lol
I think you should talk with your g/f first though......see what she says and then go from there.

She knows I have a GF.. and they have actually met.. lol I agree with you that I should talk it over with my GF first though.. but shit man.. hopefully it won't stir a bunch of shit up.. I can see it now.. Calling my work every hour to check in with me~ //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/mad.gif.c18f003ab0ef8a0d9c27ca78d77a6392.gif !~!!!!!!!