i did it exactly as you did lol that skips me having to tell you how i did it. the only thing i did diff was the power to the relay and the toggle switch i used. and also can you tell me where you had your meters and what to look for when measuring? here is the relay i used.how are you monitoring the work you did? did you measure the voltage seen by the ECM both before and after the mod? how are you observing the status of the alternator?
the ECM will tell the alt to turn off when several circumstances present themselves. typically while driving, not while parked, not when the battery voltage is already low, not when the ECM sees more than a certain voltage across the ELD. For me, it was around 2.2VDC, so I used the resistor to achieve 1.8VDC.
i used the relay to bypass the factory ELD in place of a resistor. my head unit remote output provides +12VDC to the relay coil, and a switch connects the other side of the relay coil to ground.
you need to make sure the 5-pin relay you are using has a true N.O. and N.C. contact. I've seen some 5-pin relays with two N.O. contacts tied in parallel. The only way to be sure, is use your DMM.
I've thought I had things perfect, but it didn't work. that is the point where you draw out what you did (while looking at it - don't try to copy the diagram, just draw how you did it). then measure voltage at nodes and compare with what you expect to see.
ok i didnt use those colour codes but i did the pins like it should be the colours on mine aresure, i'll PM
what's different about relay coil power and toggle? it's not "exactly the same" when something is different. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif
using relay wire colors in that link:
yellow gets +12VDC from ignition or HU remote out (switched somehow to turn off with car). coil + 86
black gets grounded (may or may not be switched). coil - 85
blue connects to ECM. common 30
white connects to ELD. N.C. 87a
red connects to resistor. N.O. 87
it is important not to cut the black ELD wire. doing so won't hurt anything, but it won't work either.
you want to measure the voltage the ECM sees with and without the relay engaged, with and without ignition load (no bypass). meter leads are on the two ELD wires you intercepted - green/red to meter + and black to meter -.