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wow, read a parenting book...do something...please....just give your kid up...spare him the agony


I have actually read many parenting books, thanks for your input tho. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/rolleyes.gif.c1fef805e9d1464d377451cd5bc18bfb.gif

 
You know, I thought about the ECU but they are usually really hard to get to. I was thinking MAF sensor or ignition.
I'n not reading the rest of the thread but just an FYI that most engines will run with out an MAF, they will just run less efficent.

I didnt think about ECU as you have to take out the CD player to reach the ECU in most vehicles that I've seen.

 
wow. how many people in this thread are parents? i'd wager just mike. to be honest, none of you know how you will raise your kids until you have them. and yes, i'm the very proud parent of a wonderful 13 year old son. and i'm not raising him anything like my parents raised me.

i was of the "do as you want, call if you need to" household. my parents would buy for us, as long as they got theirs as well. the irony? mom was a cop, and arrested me for underage drinking. after that, i never got in trouble. even when my brother passed out in the front yard, nothing was ever said. and no, i won't be like that. my son will indeed be held very accountable. he will have his freedom, but he will also know the opposite side of the fence. it will be his choice, as it is his life. but i will do my best to make sure he takes the road that leads to his success, not failure. and drinking, in all honesty, has absolutely nothing to do with success.

and to the original poster, kudos to your dad, that was true love right there. and instead of calling him a bastard, you should thank him for loving you enough to do the right thing. there is absolutely nothing wrong in having a drink with your parent, especially at 19 (i really like the drinking to dying for one's country comparision, it's very accurate indeed) but trust in your dad's opinion and enjoy the evening. don't turn sour because he cares.

and chris, you haven't messed with many vehicles have ya? more ecu's in the kick then behind the cd player.

sorry for the ramble. but i thought another parent's pov was needed. both sides are right to a point, and both are wrong. it really is a grey area, one each one of us will wade through in time.

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Not many that I had to deal with the ECU. Mostly trucks and old hondas and what not. And in the hondas we usually just mounted the ECU in the glove box (Engine swaps...ease of access for tuning if needed). Mine, my moms, and a few friends all had their ECU's in the dash. Easiest access to just unplug it IMO is to remove the CD player.

 
wow. how many people in this thread are parents? i'd wager just mike. to be honest, none of you know how you will raise your kids until you have them. and yes, i'm the very proud parent of a wonderful 13 year old son. and i'm not raising him anything like my parents raised me.

i was of the "do as you want, call if you need to" household. my parents would buy for us, as long as they got theirs as well. the irony? mom was a cop, and arrested me for underage drinking. after that, i never got in trouble. even when my brother passed out in the front yard, nothing was ever said. and no, i won't be like that. my son will indeed be held very accountable. he will have his freedom, but he will also know the opposite side of the fence. it will be his choice, as it is his life. but i will do my best to make sure he takes the road that leads to his success, not failure. and drinking, in all honesty, has absolutely nothing to do with success.

and to the original poster, kudos to your dad, that was true love right there. and instead of calling him a bastard, you should thank him for loving you enough to do the right thing. there is absolutely nothing wrong in having a drink with your parent, especially at 19 (i really like the drinking to dying for one's country comparision, it's very accurate indeed) but trust in your dad's opinion and enjoy the evening. don't turn sour because he cares.

and chris, you haven't messed with many vehicles have ya? more ecu's in the kick then behind the cd player.

sorry for the ramble. but i thought another parent's pov was needed. both sides are right to a point, and both are wrong. it really is a grey area, one each one of us will wade through in time.

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Well, Im also a 19 year old kid who knows what pisses me off and what sort of parents actually keeps myself inline.

 
i'm glad you know what pisses you off. i believe i knew what pissed me off long before 19. but then again, at 19, i had lived on my own for 3 years, had been working full time and moved 1200 miles away from my parents. can you say that?

and what kid knows what parents keep them in line? caring ones? how about a parent who's been there and done that, yet a kid still thinks they know better? i really am at a loss with that statement.

when you walk a mile in your parents shoes, then you'll know and understand how they feel. until then, you'll just think you know better, and when you finally have kids, the roles will be reversed. and pray you don't have a kid like me.

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