You remote control also allows you to arm and disarm the alarm with or with out chirps.
Typically it is pressing two buttons simultaneously.
Check your owners manual in the programming guide.
You are taking a lot of precautions which is fine but definately use a relay to drive the additional sirens, run two power and two ground wires from the alarm.
One set (+ -) to the battery direct and one to the DEI recommended location at the ignition switch and underdash chasis ground.
All of the sirens in the world won't help if the thief reaches up from under your car and cuts the factory power or ground cable and then steals your stereo.
Of course there are a million other things you can do such as a battery back up siren but this will help some.