Man, I feel for you here.
My aunt died right at the beginning of 2020, liver/pancreatic cancer.
My uncle-in-law just had to have a removal of a major organ part because of cancer.
My other aunt had leukemia at 25 and survived, still alive today.
A great man, an Army Ranger from Vietnam that I grew up around as a kid, he got bone marrow cancer from Agent Orange, went through horrific chemo, lost 6-7" in height in his spine, survived almost all the chemo, then caught a or the virus and he was still on chemo and it got him, while he was taking care of his wife who also had the virus.
I very heavily wish for a speedy recovery for her
<3