Advice on calling back an ex

[mjf 10+ year member]

just wait for a call back, she undoubtedly knows you're calling.

 

[LoudCrownVic 5,000+ posts]

I'll wait for her to call...

Called one day, called but did not leave a message one day, then called again today and left a message...

**** it, I've been so unbelievably depressed and self hating so long if she wants to pass me up now when I'm better and a relationship CAN take place then she can do that... Of course it will hurt but oh well.

 

[LoudCrownVic 5,000+ posts]

Thanks all, mike ur right I'd sound like a stalker if I kept calling and calling.

 

[LoudCrownVic 5,000+ posts]

LOL... ****.

She just gave me a call.

Got a BF now, wasn't pissed or anything, i think. I guess that ends that...

 

[HitManSE 10+ year member]

Let it go. Sounds like she WAS a part of someone you no longer are. No need to bring that part of your life back.

Ive walked away from an entire group of friends... twice. Not just 1 person. So im sure you'll be just fine. I dont feel ive made any wrong choices. You learn from your mistakes and move on.

 

[slikrider20 10+ year member]

We should make a DR phil sticky. Where all your stupid girly questions can be answered. Grow some balls and let the ***** kno whats up. IF u want her back say will u go back out with mee!! IF she says no tell her to **** off and go to hell, actually if u tell her that if she really likes u she'll come back 2x as fast

 

[LoudCrownVic 5,000+ posts]

Let it go. Sounds like she WAS a part of someone you no longer are. No need to bring that part of your life back.
Ive walked away from an entire group of friends... twice. Not just 1 person. So im sure you'll be just fine. I dont feel ive made any wrong choices. You learn from your mistakes and move on.

Indeed.

Done and done.

 

[LoudCrownVic 5,000+ posts]

We should make a DR phil sticky. Where all your stupid girly questions can be answered. Grow some balls and let the ***** kno whats up. IF u want her back say will u go back out with mee!! IF she says no tell her to **** off and go to hell, actually if u tell her that if she really likes u she'll come back 2x as fast

And you drive a Camaro.

Not suprising...

 

[mattmcss 10+ year member]

haha let me give you a useful piece of advice my friend, let the past be the past.

 

[slikrider20 10+ year member]

And you drive a Camaro.
Not suprising...

Whats the camaro have to do with it?

 

[HitManSE 10+ year member]

Whats the camaro have to do with it?

I think hes trying to say your trash //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif

Seriously though in a way your right, ive found A LOT of girls respond different when you treat them like crap. I know know wtf is wrong with those girls but hell if thats the stupid game they wanna play, whatever floats their boat.

I personally dont like doing this though, its obvious which ones are like that though, its almost like a "your that type huh...****, ok here we go again" thought hits my mind when I met certain women.

 

[slikrider20 10+ year member]

Nah man i'm serious, the meaner you are to girls, the quicker they'll come back - that is, if they REALLY like you..if your nice they take it for granted and you don't get anything out of it.

 

[JoshHd6 10+ year member]

word i was going threw the same shit..wish i could get my ex back..//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif

 

[Imtjnotu 5,000+ posts]

haha im in the same situation except she wants to talk to me now after me refusing to talk to her...here is what u do..u get ahold of her and have an amazing fight wit here im talking like blaming everything on her and causing problems...then u wait till she calls u and asks were u being serious and she will be back in the palm of ur hand..but u have to say some real evil shit like i regret loving u haha....then she will be there missing u and everything u had...trust me

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

is this like a dr phil forum or something?

Seems like it doesnt it?

i say 2 messages in 2 days sounds desperate.i'd say give it a week or 2 before trying again.

Id give it enver before trying again

Yes... People actually give **** good advice here.

Oh really.

I would have to agree with Mike for once.

I disagree

yea good idea to go by a forum to make life decisions

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another chick thread? you've GOTTA be shitting me.

yup, another one.

word i was going threw the same shit..wish i could get my ex back..//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif

To nut in her face?

yes I read the thread, I was answering for future reference. Just in case someone searches for relationships problems. Hmmm:uhoh: