Advice on calling back an ex

[LoudCrownVic 5,000+ posts]

Well, I called back my ex gf, left two mesages now over two days. Its been basically 1 year since we broke up.

When we broke up I was having bad self esteem/depression issues and thought I wasn't good enough or whatever, dreaded calling her... When I met her in August she told me to call her but I didn't, I still wasn't ready.

How many times/how long should I leave messages until I stop calling? She was always very happy to hear from me before, but I don't want to piss her off or act like a stalker.

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[tEh koRnDog 5,000+ posts]

is this like a dr phil forum or something?

 

[MikeofTulsa Moderator]

i say 2 messages in 2 days sounds desperate.

i'd say give it a week or 2 before trying again.

 

[MikeofTulsa Moderator]

is this like a dr phil forum or something?

yes, its actually the dr mike forums

 

[LoudCrownVic 5,000+ posts]

is this like a dr phil forum or something?

Yes... People actually give **** good advice here.

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

i say 2 messages in 2 days sounds desperate.i'd say give it a week or 2 before trying again.

I would have to agree with Mike for once.

 

[tEh koRnDog 5,000+ posts]

Yes... People actually give **** good advice here.

yea good idea to go by a forum to make life decisions

 

[DaGh0st 5,000+ posts]

go over there and tap that shit......

3 days is the norm for me.then wait 3 days for the call back.Or answer when she calls?

 

[iceteebone 5,000+ posts]

is this like a dr phil forum or something?

no, it's the Dr. Bone forum. helping interweb dwebs get puss since 2003

 

[Violence. 10+ year member]

tell her your on mushrooms and you have a viagra prescription

dude the one thing ive learned is once you break up with them never go back. you will be with them and all those little things you hated will bother you again and you will end up breakign up again

besides itll be easier to get her best friend

 

[bikinpunk 10+ year member]

Quit callin now. Wait for her to call you back. Quit playing "double dutch" with your heart man. I've been there. The faster you earn self-respect for youself, the better off you'll be. I went through this for 2 years before I finally moved on. No matter what, I'll always love my first love, but I've learned that the love for her is not what it used to be. Since then I've gotten engaged to someone else. Your first is impossible to get over, but you'll look back on this and kick yourself for being so depressed. Just think of all the girls that are passing you up as you dwell on memories...

Don't call her anymore.

 

[Lil Poot 5,000+ posts]

another chick thread? you've GOTTA be shitting me.

 

[TypeRBass 10+ year member]

twice in one day is bad. wait for her to call back. if you make it three times in one day then thats just not good.

 

[iceteebone 5,000+ posts]

another chick thread? you've GOTTA be shitting me.

these threads are fun. this is where my expertise shines //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

If she doesnt call back in a week or two, Id say 1 more call, then thats it for good. Its not like she isnt getting the calls. Everyone has caller ID and voice mail.