Adopted gf parents cutting her off completly what to do?

[bizflawless 5,000+ posts]

well it cant be u 80% and her parents 20%...u have to be 100%

 

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

i met her parents once i know her parents are mad cause i put a hu in her car and bought her a cellphone thats 2 reasons the hate me and then they say i brought her down in school b/c she fell in love with me. cause she didnt do to well in school even though she did better this semester than last semester

any parent that loves their child isn't going to just drop them because they're in a relationship. theres probably a lot more to the story than you're telling us. how do you treat her? why do they hate you so much?

 

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

i treat her good also

 

[cpierce 5,000+ posts]

alrdy did thati argued with her mom for 2 hrs telling her that i would work with her that i would go 80 she can go 20 shit like that. they only way she said was if she stays hom and i know she doesnt want to and i might lose her then.

You are acting like this is the end of the world! Do you know how many other hot bitches are out there?!

 

[quest51210 10+ year member]

how do you know your girl is faithful to u do you really know?honestly do u really know.

oh i know...i never put it past anyone, but when you get a quality of woman as i have and have invested as much time as we have you just know. first of all i dont come on here yapping about lifes everyday problems. i strategize and deal with them. your immaturity shines all over this thread. i helped her thru the death of her father. when i was nearly killed in an auto accident she drove from Dallas to see me in the hospital, when she had issues with her neighbors i drove to galveston in pouring rain and it took me 6.5 hours in 35MPH traffic to get there. dedication, loyalty, and faith is something you lack.

we dont club or bar hop, we dont partake in any illegal activity, i am finishing my BA while she is finishing her PhD. we comfort each other on a daily basis and send each other emails, texts, and cards to help each other thru the rough times especially during finals.

bottom line, if you think you are ready you have no clue what true dedication to someone else is, yet

you should realize that her parents are trying to SHOW you how irresponsible she really is.

 

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

i like this girl and i dont want any other girl and i dont call them *****es there girls respect them i do.

 

[quest51210 10+ year member]

heed the warning and run!!!!!!!!

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

her mom sounded very serious to me. so lets say she does come with me and they do **** her over then what ?Her mom told me there keeping the hpouse around for her and that there ryd to retire age is 62 her mom is. so they said they were going to sell the house and buy a rv. if this all happens and her mom said she couldnt keep her pictures and stuff either. it does sound like there trying to scare me i know but how can you be so sure there not bsing u?

Are you an English as a Second Language student? (ESL)

 

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

first of all i alrdy know how irresponsible she is but she told me i am only about 40% of why she is moving out. and 2nd stop putting me down and help out u jerk.

oh i know...i never put it past anyone, but when you get a quality of woman as i have and have invested as much time as we have you just know. first of all i dont come on here yapping about lifes everyday problems. i strategize and deal with them. your immaturity shines all over this thread. i helped her thru the death of her father. when i was nearly killed in an auto accident she drove from Dallas to see me in the hospital, when she had issues with her neighbors i drove to galveston in pouring rain and it took me 6.5 hours in 35MPH traffic to get there. dedication, loyalty, and faith is something you lack.
we dont club or bar hop, we dont partake in any illegal activity, i am finishing my BA while she is finishing her PhD. we comfort each other on a daily basis and send each other emails, texts, and cards to help each other thru the rough times especially during finals.

bottom line, if you think you are ready you have no clue what true dedication to someone else is, yet

you should realize that her parents are trying to SHOW you how irresponsible she really is.

 

[bizflawless 5,000+ posts]

i like this girl and i dont want any other girl and i dont call them *****es there girls respect them i do.

obviously u haven't had many gfs, there are bitches out there, and hoes and sluts.....oh yea ud be surprised.....once in a blue moon u will find a decent girl

 

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

i know

 

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

as i said i dated alot of girls

 

[bizflawless 5,000+ posts]

well then if u already have your mind set then do what u got to do to make it work

 

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

which means wat then? wat do i do?

 

[HitManSE 10+ year member]

well what all would yall do in this situtation?

Read post #49

You have 2 options.

Option #1: You will be with her and have a sh!tty time. It will be a mistake.

Option #2: You can let it go, you'll get over it and wonder why you were such a dumb@ss for even thinking so much about it down the road.

Id choose the latter.

Your head is obviously a bit clouded up atm. Realistically, can you support her? do you even want to support her (really think about that one) I didnt ask do you want to get laid, I said do you really want to have someone you are responsible for?

You're still young and have a ways to go, dont let something stupid like this get it your way. This will just be one of those things you'll look back it and wonder wtf was wrong with you. Just like now, most of us here with a clear mind are wondering wtf is wrong with you.

There are A LOT...alot lot lot lot of ladies out there, and TWICE as many *****!! :boobies:

Im not trying to sit here and insult you, just think real. Let it go and do what you have to do for yourself. Thats my .02