Adopted gf parents cutting her off completly what to do?

[savagebee 10+ year member]

shitloads of people do it..

I worked my way through a 4 year honors degree (I had a good scholarship too) and graduated magna, with an honors degree, my girlfried is an emt basic, going through her paramedic training, and we both work full time, and she is still in school (8 hours a day, 2 days a week) and we still have time to spend with each...

get over it, real life sucks, and its hard... get used to it

 

[faulkton 5,000+ posts]

ok heres the big story her parents say if she leaves the house to be with me then they are dropping her but if i dont take her then she will leave anyways u know and they will still drop her. They are going to drop her form everything no car cell phone they said they were going to take away all her clothes except a weeks worth but can they actually do that? also since they dont wanna help her out now i hear there somthing the state will do to help you out like somthing called a ward i believe.Also this is not a bluff .

(12:24:03 am): her parents are dropping even if she like leaves u

trunks9us (12:25:16 am): well wat they want her to do is move back in home and go to school there and study study study and i got her mom down to where if i get her to stay there can i see her and she said on saturdays but not every saturday

(12:25:32 am): lol

(12:25:34 am): they hate u

trunks9us (12:25:43 am): i know she doesnt want me there she also said that she said that i brought her down b/c i treated her out to some romance she said i bought her daughter out

plz heelp me out here.

if anyone knows anything about cps adopted kids and what to do to get state help after your adopted parents disown u plz help out.

her mom said i brought her down b/c i took her out and shit u know dating is what u do she said that she is all into romance now in stead of college but i said to her mom i will make her work we can take classes together but she doesnt like it. i said let me prove to you this summer its 2 months of summer school that i can get her grades up since u can not and then let me handle it from then there on and if i dont then she can live with you under your rules she wouldnt agree. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif she said im not wasting any mor emoney on her and then i said i would pay for it but she would not go for that either.

regardless evcen if she lives with them its going to be horrible for her she has to ride with he sister to college and do w/e her parent say and work around her sister schedule for college for summer and fall and not sure what after that she has to study all the time with he mom right next to her her mom said this. and always work work work on school work she wont even let her talk to me on myspace she caught her and locked her off the comp.

WTF?

I'm sure that the following sentiments have already posted, but i cant make it past the first page to find out.

Her parents are probably correct in making her dump you.

Trying to figure out what the fukk you are saying probably takes up all her time and she has none left for school.

Her parents should tell her that the only way she can continue to see you, is if you pass an English class with at least a C-.

 

[faulkton 5,000+ posts]

I'm pretty sure it was one of his many typos when he said they were 21 and 19, because his grasp of the written language is much more consistent with ages 12 and 9.

 

[funkyab 10+ year member]

I'm pretty sure it was one of his many typos when he said they were 21 and 19, because his grasp of the written language is much more consistent with ages 12 and 9.

Maybe........ but in times of desperation, all academics and intelligent rationality can go out the door..

I have been in this spot,, but much more complicated,, with a girl from a different country, years ago.

Situation has sooo many variables.. i will not give suggestions. But I will offer support to both of them. Things can indeed get very complicated and situations come up that are so incredibly individualistic, all we can do is wish for the best.

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

Maybe........ but in times of desperation, all academics and intelligent rationality can go out the door..
I have been in this spot,, but much more complicated,, with a girl from a different country, years ago.

Situation has sooo many variables.. i will not give suggestions. But I will offer support to both of them. Things can indeed get very complicated and situations come up that are so incredibly individualistic, all we can do is wish for the best.

Nah man. Thats not an excuse.

 

[bigbangtheory 5,000+ posts]

Jesus Christ, I dont even know how I made it to page 2 let alone # 7 and now I am done, lol!

This is not Dr. Phil's forum, is a car audio forum.

If you want advice go seek help from someone else professionally, sounds like you need it.

Personally I dont believe you are 21 because you sound like you are in fawking middle school with this shit.

 

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

you ****ing dumbass this is the lounge you ****ig retard i wish you **** some **** maybe mine.

 

[bigbangtheory 5,000+ posts]

you ****ing dumbass this is the lounge you ****ig retard i wish you **** some **** maybe mine.

Wow, I knew you were ghey, but come on mang! //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif

 

[bigbangtheory 5,000+ posts]

Like I said, some grade shcool shit!

 

[HeatSeeker 10+ year member]

kill them, sell their bodies on the organ black market = win