Adopted gf parents cutting her off completly what to do?

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

ok heres the big story her parents say if she leaves the house to be with me then they are dropping her but if i dont take her then she will leave anyways u know and they will still drop her. They are going to drop her form everything no car cell phone they said they were going to take away all her clothes except a weeks worth but can they actually do that? also since they dont wanna help her out now i hear there somthing the state will do to help you out like somthing called a ward i believe.

Also this is not a bluff .

(12:24:03 am): her parents are dropping even if she like leaves u

trunks9us (12:25:16 am): well wat they want her to do is move back in home and go to school there and study study study and i got her mom down to where if i get her to stay there can i see her and she said on saturdays but not every saturday

(12:25:32 am): lol

(12:25:34 am): they hate u

trunks9us (12:25:43 am): i know she doesnt want me there she also said that she said that i brought her down b/c i treated her out to some romance she said i bought her daughter out

plz heelp me out here.

if anyone knows anything about cps adopted kids and what to do to get state help after your adopted parents disown u plz help out.

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[bizflawless 5,000+ posts]

how old are u and her?

 

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

21 and 19 but age should not matter i would not think

and i do love her

 

[Randy Savage 5,000+ posts]

Have *** with her dad. That'll really show him who's boss.

 

[btnhfan 5,000+ posts]

What did you do to make them hate you this much?

 

[bizflawless 5,000+ posts]

why dont u both get jobs and support urselfs anyways??? she cant live off her parents forever, i mean if shes gonna move out or wants to move out she has to be responsible for herself. So basically shes making that choice herself.

 

[95ZJ 10+ year member]

That sounds like a tricky situation, hope it works out for you man. I don't have any suggestions :/.

 

[bizflawless 5,000+ posts]

are u guys sure ur ready for this? are u sure shes the one?

 

[lookitsjim23 10+ year member]

i really dont understand what your saying...

 

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

her mom said i brought her down b/c i took her out and shit u know dating is what u do she said that she is all into romance now in stead of college but i said to her mom i will make her work we can take classes together but she doesnt like it. i said let me prove to you this summer its 2 months of summer school that i can get her grades up since u can not and then let me handle it from then there on and if i dont then she can live with you under your rules she wouldnt agree. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif she said im not wasting any mor emoney on her and then i said i would pay for it but she would not go for that either.

What did you do to make them hate you this much?

 

[btlking 10+ year member]

pee in her butt if she stays then shes a winner

 

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

parent are supose to be there to help you not take everything away and thats what they are doing taking the car away so she has to struggle?? no cell phone no health insurance no dental ect. no one to pay for the birth control what kinda of helpful parent is this sound like a big indian giver to me lol.

why dont u both get jobs and support urselfs anyways??? she cant live off her parents forever, i mean if shes gonna move out or wants to move out she has to be responsible for herself. So basically shes making that choice herself.

 

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

well we are not getting married not but yes she is the one for me.

are u guys sure ur ready for this? are u sure shes the one?

 

[bizflawless 5,000+ posts]

well sounds like they dont want to let go of their baby........but they see u as a distraction, because shes not focused on the future (school) shes more into leaving home and being with you, with in the future will be bad for both of u, if u dont both focus on school and ur futures..

 

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

regardless evcen if she lives with them its going to be horrible for her she has to ride with he sister to college and do w/e her parent say and work around her sister schedule for college for summer and fall and not sure what after that she has to study all the time with he mom right next to her her mom said this. and always work work work on school work she wont even let her talk to me on myspace she caught her and locked her off the comp.