Adopted gf parents cutting her off completly what to do?

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

clothes and shit are gifts i thought and gifts cant be taken away from what i hear?

if she didnt buy it, yes they can take it away

 

[quest51210 10+ year member]

its hard to sav e up money for a car and pay rent and go to college u know.

i do it, heck i work FT at the best install shop in town, have own place, going to put $12K down on a new car tomorrow, go to school FT, and have plenty to go around. i by no means grew up rich, just smart with my cash...heck get a student loan for the first semester til you get on your feet or sell your car audio gear if you love her.

canb they really take away her clothes bed and make up ect. stuff like that?cause they said they will only leave her with one weeks worth of clothes?

if they have recepts that prove they paid for them they can do as they wish. to hell with it, they are not even her real parents...they took her in and raised her.

listening to your whiney immature thread makes it seem like you are more fearful of having to give up the good life to help support not only yourself, but her as well

 

[bizflawless 5,000+ posts]

i just dont think she is rdy for the real world

then why do u want her to move out

 

[Rich B 5,000+ posts]

true but why would your adopted parents who adopt you take everything away and not just help you out and supopsrt your decision?

Well, I was adopted at birth, and my parents kicked me out of the house when I was 18 for too much partying.

The worst part isnt getting kicked out, its that pushing your parents into taking that kind of drastic action forever screws up how close she will be with them from that point forward.

Not knowing how close your GF is to her adoptive parents, I cant say how hard it will be on her, but it will hurt her some no matter what.

 

[audiobahnuser18 5,000+ posts]

Man that sux i wish i knew what to say to this situation but this is a real tough one. all i say is i hope the best for ya man and good luck with everything hope everything turns out alright for ya.

 

[JesterFPS 10+ year member]

What does she want to do, that's the question.

 

[audiobahnuser18 5,000+ posts]

Man that sux i wish i knew what to say to this situation but this is a real tough one. all i say is i hope the best for ya man and good luck with everything hope everything turns out alright for ya.

 

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

uhh i am selling my car audio shit to fix my wreck car and my root canals u know i got about 8 more to get now plus crowns and no more dental insurance used it all i have my own problems to deal with so i do know how to spend my money wisely but i got about 20k to spend on my teeth still. and loans only go so far. and i work 60 hrs a week and go to school half time and drive a hr to work and a hr home. so my life is not cheesey

i do it, heck i work FT at the best install shop in town, have own place, going to put $12K down on a new car tomorrow, go to school FT, and have plenty to go around. i by no means grew up rich, just smart with my cash...heck get a student loan for the first semester til you get on your feet or sell your car audio gear if you love her.


if they have recepts that prove they paid for them they can do as they wish. to hell with it, they are not even her real parents...they took her in and raised her.

listening to your whiney immature thread makes it seem like you are more fearful of having to give up the good life to help support not only yourself, but her as well

 

[bizflawless 5,000+ posts]

Man that sux i wish i knew what to say to this situation but this is a real tough one. all i say is i hope the best for ya man and good luck with everything hope everything turns out alright for ya.

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[quest51210 10+ year member]

then why do u want her to move out

i dont think he is either. he says he is in college, but his thread does not make any freakin sense. grammar is at the 8th grade level at best.

What does she want to do, that's the question.

she wants to move out, get preggo, get married and 2 years later....sleep with their 50 year old neighbor, hahahaha!

 

[grizzly 10+ year member]

sounds like kids need to grow up

 

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

she is going to do it with or with out me she said

but maybe she isnt but if she doesnt move out then ill prolly lose her just caus ei will only be able to see her maybe once a month and relationships dont last like that and i live about 2hrs away from her parents house and they said no spending the night and who knows if ill get phone calls. thats why i want her to mov ein with me. make sense now.

then why do u want her to move out

 

[bizflawless 5,000+ posts]

i dont think either of u are ready for this, u guys should fix the things u need to fix first, that will give her some time with school and once u have proven to her parents that u can take care of their daughter...i think they will be supportive of it, by taking care im not talking about paying for everything for the both of u

 

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

she wants to be with me.

her parents dont but i dont want her to lose everything b/c of me u know.

What does she want to do, that's the question.

 

[quest51210 10+ year member]

uhh i am selling my car audio shit to fix my wreck car and my root canals u know i got about 8 more to get now plus crowns and no more dental insurance used it all i have my own problems to deal with so i do know how to spend my money wisely but i got about 20k to spend on my teeth still. and loans only go so far. and i work 60 hrs a week and go to school half time and drive a hr to work and a hr home. so my life is not cheesey

thats what i am saying, sounds like you really dont want her to leave. so you dont have to deal with her shat. i guarantee that if you put a yuppie rich girl that never has had to provide for herself in a crappy living situation and make her work...she will leave you for the first dude that is willing to pick up the tab