A little sappy, but stll need advice

[yne721 10+ year member]

bottom line. apparently you guys don't genuinely love each other, otherwise she wouldn't have such serious doubts. there's a difference between thinking about it every now and then, and just telling you it won't work for her.

good luck either way.

 

[adam007 10+ year member]

Yea.....u shouldve drove there last night grab her *** up whipped her with ur belt, then banged one more time.....also we need pics!

 

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

Wow, for a bunch of internet losers these guys have actually given some pretty good advice.

All except for Jmanpc. He is a decent guy, but do not listen to anything he says about stuff like this.

Why do I say this:

1. His gf has not given HIM a BJ yet

2. He has no idea she is screwing half of Ol' Dixie

 

[adam007 10+ year member]

Wow, for a bunch of internet losers these guys have actually given some pretty good advice.
All except for Jmanpc. He is a decent guy, but do not listen to anything he says about stuff like this.

Why do I say this:

1. His gf has not given HIM a BJ yet

2. He has no idea she is screwing half of Ol' Dixie

lmfao thats funny as shit.

 

[ConcernedMember 10+ year member]

so guys, i have a gf, we are both in college, shes a freshman, im a soph, we live in teh same hometown but go to different school, mine is in Decatur IL and hers in in St. Joe MO...6 HOURS AWAY...she does not drink often but she does drink, she is drunk rite now (some wed bowling thing)...and she just called me, and shes really confused...she says that she cant do the whole distance thing...like how she needs me to be there and hug and kiss her ect...but i just cant be...we only see each other about every 3 weeks or so...btw we have been dating for 11 months now...how should i take this? as just a drunk confused fone call or a serious thing to think about and act upon...advice? feel free to ask questions because i will answer any u have...
thanks in advance

You need to move on. There are plenty of chicks out there, and this just obviously isn't working out for the two of you. Just tell her the truth and move on, because she's probably getting drunk and banging some other guys.

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

Ok now that all those dumb *** questions have been asked............

where are the pics so we can really help you decide what to do?

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[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

There is no doubt in my mind that this is a female's idea of letting you down easy.

"I need to be with you so bad -- this long distance thing is just killing me." To which YOU respond, "are you saying we need to break up."

And there you have it. You brought it up for her.

Turn this around on this two - timing *****. Tell her you agree. You are transferring schools to be with her. In fact, the car is loaded and you will be there tonight. See what happens.

Go there, take her from behind. As you are doing her, tell her that her *** is wider than the girl's *** that you have been seeing on the side. Then hold on. it's going to be a wild ride.

Hope that helps.

 

[Pl8er 5,000+ posts]

There is no doubt in my mind that this is a female's idea of letting you down easy.
"I need to be with you so bad -- this long distance thing is just killing me." To which YOU respond, "are you saying we need to break up."

And there you have it. You brought it up for her.

Turn this around on this two - timing *****. Tell her you agree. You are transferring schools to be with her. In fact, the car is loaded and you will be there tonight. See what happens.

Go there, take her from behind. As you are doing her, tell her that her *** is wider than the girl's *** that you have been seeing on the side. Then hold on. it's going to be a wild ride.

Hope that helps.

HA HA HA HA HA!!! Its the rodeo game!

 

[ConcernedMember 10+ year member]

this is a no brainer. You're ~20 years old, the chances of you marrying this chick and spending the rest of your life with her are really low. If it were me...I'd be banging other chicks and keep her on the side, or if I really cared about her, I'd just get rid of her and start seeing other chicks. The bottom line is you gotta do what's best for you and what makes you happy, and seeing this chick once every 3 weeks probably isn't making you happy. Now I'm going to be real honest with you, she's slept with half of ca.com do you really want that on your mind next time you are banging her?

 

[KARLEON 10+ year member]

x2 on what yne721 said. In my opinion, if it was really true love like you say, then she wouldnt have doubts and come to you and say she cant do it. Maybe you really love her but obvious its not the same way on her end. Maybe she does really care about you, therefore trying to break it off easy, and it seems like you dont want to accept this.

Now of course, i dont know you guys or your relationship. Only what you tell us, but from the information that is what i came up with. Good luck with your relationship man. Im also in a long distance relationship and i already established the grounds. If she even remotely feels like she cant do it, or if she is interested in some other guy then i told her to go ahead and bang em or date em or what ever she is wanting. I mean, shes in college. I told her to have fun. But if she did choose to do any of the above, i wouldnt be her man anymore. Although she is very attractive, i still trust her. She is anti-social. She doesnt party, drink, smoke. Barely hang out with friends. If she does, its going to football/basketball games. Then right back to her dorm. Plus she calls me 50times aday.

 

[dalucifer 10+ year member]

this is a no brainer. You're ~20 years old, the chances of you marrying this chick and spending the rest of your life with her are really low. If it were me...I'd be banging other chicks and keep her on the side, or if I really cared about her, I'd just get rid of her and start seeing other chicks. The bottom line is you gotta do what's best for you and what makes you happy, and seeing this chick once every 3 weeks probably isn't making you happy. Now I'm going to be real honest with you, she's slept with half of ca.com do you really want that on your mind next time you are banging her?

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[Mitch86 5,000+ posts]

That's enough to make a **** star stop banging...

 

[Relax 10+ year member]

These guys are a little harsh-

What kidn of girl is she?

Naughty- You are ****ed.

Nice- She just really wants to see you.

If she is naughty- wait for her to come home for christmas vacation and dump her *** after she gives you stuff.

If she is nice- go see her this weekend. Make it happen.

 

[Mitch86 5,000+ posts]

The most you will get out of any advice given around here will be genital warts.

You need to figure this out. Not CA.com.

 

[jimmclrk1 10+ year member]

you're on the internet.//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

I'm not *****ing about my girlfriend.