Woman situation, what to do

[Innovative:Cory 10+ year member]

This is only going to end badly no matter how you slice it....

either you are going to be broken hearted...

or your going to loose the girl and your friend...

you can't make someone want to be with you, if you have made a move and it didn't work, AND you told your buddy to go for it... your done...

game over... move on...

 

[NewAgeKing 5,000+ posts]

Lol oh man. Dont answer her calls all the time. Once in awhile answer and say whats up but dont make it seem like your acting different. Then she will buzz off to the next floppy. Then casually answer more and go with it. I dont know its hard to explain really. Either you have, you dont, or your getting there.

 

[MisterGrubbs 5,000+ posts]

Oh and never tell her or him the wrapped around the finger deal. Your f'ed for life if you do.

Look, I might have little to no game, but I'm not a complete jackass

And yes, I'm royally fvcked in the ***.

I think I got pulled into the friend zone and it's too deep to recover.

 

[NewAgeKing 5,000+ posts]

This is only going to end badly no matter how you slice it....either you are going to be broken hearted...

or your going to loose the girl and your friend...

you can't make someone want to be with you, if you have made a move and it didn't work, AND you told your buddy to go for it... your done...

game over... move on...

This is sounding more like whats goin on now that somebody else said it. I think im going to have to go with the x2

 

[Innovative:Cory 10+ year member]

if you really want to be with her, you are going to stand up and be a man, take her off of the pedestal, play hard to get so to speak... act like you are no longer interested... you are her dick under glass so to speak at the moment....

 

[mrogowski 5,000+ posts]

This is easy. **** it up and move on. You'll find someone else who will fall for you. Cut the amount of time you see this girl too. She wants to be friends with you? Sure, no problem, but make sure its on your time, not hers.

Be a man. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif

 

[EGGmane 10+ year member]

In all honesty, If she is telling you she loves you then she is just playing with your mind... I say cut off any favors you are doing for her and then see if her story changes...

x2

I have been in the same situation. Except it was more confusing, she acted like she wanted to ****, always talked about it but nothing ever came of it.

You just have to leave her alone, if you don't she will just keep stringing you along.

 

[morgans432 10+ year member]

dude you can never be stuck in the friend zone. thats where i was and thought it would never change. you need to do something out of the ordinary - something he doesnt do. something to set you apart from him, and make her want YOU more than anything else in the entire world.
if she calls to check in with you and tell you she loves you, and shes still ****in around with him..that just doesnt make any sense to me lol.

thats the jersey way right there haha

 

[MisterGrubbs 5,000+ posts]

And that's what I'm afraid of, terribly.

I wont lose him , point blank. I will shake your hand right now that both of us will tell that ***** to fvck off before it happens.

I'll just get to be broken hearted, I guess.

And it's hard to woo her, so to speak, when she's **** near flabbergasted every time she talks to him, you know? I just dont have the effect on her, and I was just debating on whether or not to cut her off and give up, or what.

 

[brtnboarder3241 5,000+ posts]

Lol oh man. Dont answer her calls all the time. Once in awhile answer and say whats up but dont make it seem like your acting different. Then she will buzz off to the next floppy. Then casually answer more and go with it. I dont know its hard to explain really. Either you have, you dont, or your getting there.

x2

act like u dont give a shit anymore, and either its meant to be and she will start calling you more since she knows that your not on her *** or she will go do her thing..or she will do her thing, realized it was the wrong thing and she should have went with you..by that time u would have found new better ***** so you can tell that ****ing nappy headed ***** to go **** herself and your gettin better ***** than she ever could give..

//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif trust me.. You can fill in the stars with whatever words you want

 

[Innovative:Cory 10+ year member]

Like I said. you are probably better off just dropping back and punting....

take the heartache and move on... it sounds like you are already doing too much, and if you end up getting together she is only going to take advantage of you....she will use you for what she can and she will move on,,, in fact she already is... why pay for milk when you have the cow for free?

 

[pcolasfinest 10+ year member]

In all honesty, If she is telling you she loves you then she is just playing with your mind... I say cut off any favors you are doing for her and then see if her story changes...

this is what i would do, she is doing all that for a reason.

 

[MisterGrubbs 5,000+ posts]

Trust me, she talks a bit dirty son

BRB they're here...**** me

 

[brtnboarder3241 5,000+ posts]

Trust me, she talks a bit dirty son
BRB they're here...**** me

**** YOU NO

GO **** THAT ***** FOR ME SON

 

[cpierce 5,000+ posts]