well, i recieved the most disturbing email....

[jonnybusa 10+ year member]

One of my good friends, of around 12 years, just emailed me w/ probably the most disturbing thing I've ever heard......

Here's a little background first............

He, and I are both 31 years old, and both married, and both w/ 2 year old kids.......I have a daughter, and he a son. We've actually been thru ALOT together....like when my father died of cancer a few years ago, and when my sister died recently, he truly helped me thru it all, and I was there for him when his 1st fiance died when robbed, ***** and murdered!! Now, he's like a man's man, a ladies man, and always has been. Now, I email him, and he I every week, and I just got done reading his a few minutes ago......I'm not gonna post the exact email, but just post the main "ideas".

He said his wife's working, and he's watching his son..............they are on the couch together, and he's watching tv. He then says his son is on his lap, and jumping, and bouncing around, ya know....playing and stuff...........when it happens.................MY FRIEND GETS A BONER FROM HIS SON!!

I cant believe I'm reading what I am reading, but he goes on to say after his son gave him this accidental boner, he put his son in his crib, and went to the bathroom, and whacked off!!!! HE SAID HE COULDNT HELP IT!! I am disgusted, feel sick to my stomach, and dont know what to do...... He told me this, because he felt soooo bad, cunfused, and I dont know what. he wanted answers from me, but I'm speechless..........I dont think I even want to talk to or see him ever again.

Now, he really didnt do anything wrong, like molest or anything like that, but what happened while his own son was on his lap is just wrong, and disturbing.

Whats more disturbing is that he had to finish himself off afterwards, knowing HOW he got this erection.

Now, I'm SURE his son is safe w/ the guy, but I have it on my mind that he did something wrong..........and I'm not sure if I say something to his wife, and ruin .....well, whatever happens afterwards.

I dont wanna jump to any conclusions, but the fact that he told me this makes me think he believes something's wrong, and he wants to know what to do, or whatever. I'm just shocked, and am not sure I should even respond to it like its serious, or blow it off, like its no biggie, etc.......

This 2 minute email I got from him just changed out relationship of 12+ years, but I being a father of a helpless 2 year old, am sickened and even angry that it happened.

What do I do?

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[bonesninja 5,000+ posts]

call chris hansen....he'll know what to do.

but for real, i'm at a loss

 

[tapout 5,000+ posts]

Is this like the toilet bowl thread?

If not, then I think you should call DFACS. Have emails handy.

 

[phyphoestilic 5,000+ posts]

Ask him if he's joking around. Seems like a prank to me, unless u dont really know the guy well enough to tell if its a prank or not.

 

[jonnybusa 10+ year member]

Is this like the toilet bowl thread?
If not, then I think you should call DFACS. Have emails handy.

Not the toilet thread.........this is real..........

I juat read another email from him, crying, sickened, and he actually called his wife, and told her............I didnt get exactly what happened next, but I'll keep ya posted.......I think I'm staying outta it, and let him/her deal w/ it.......

 

[Safe-N-Sound215 10+ year member]

what happened while his own son was on his lap is just wrong, and disturbing.

Whats more disturbing is that he had to finish himself off afterwards, knowing HOW he got this erection.

Now, I'm SURE his son is safe w/ the guy, but I have it on my mind that he did something wrong..........and I'm not sure if I say something to his wife, and ruin .....well, whatever happens afterwards.

This 2 minute email I got from him just changed out relationship of 12+ years, but I being a father of a helpless 2 year old, am sickened and even angry that it happened.

What do I do?

Well I really don't know what to say? As far as getting an erection, it can happen at a bad time for any man. It happens. Although I have two kids and it's never happen to me in that situation, thank god. If it did I would feel like the biggest scumbag on the planet.

As far as the hammering off thing thats a different story. I don't even want to think about it.

 

[HitManSE 10+ year member]

Whoa... well as for the kid bouncing around, it might have been accidental? I mean your **** doesnt know whats poking around. It could have accidentally activated the launch sequence?

Only HE knows that and might have whacked it away just to get rid of that, thats as far as my guess can go. Now if hes actually attracted to his son, and is actually thinking of doing anything stupid... he needs to see a psychiatrist.

 

[DemonaL 10+ year member]

I wouldn't let it come between your relationship since he's been there for you for a very long time, I wouldn't **** him over... Let his family deal with it.

 

[iagrdshaka 5,000+ posts]

that's fucked up....

Personally, I wouldn't ever talk to him again, even if he was one of my friends.

 

[BiaBia 10+ year member]

All humans are ****** beings, the fact of something rubbing up against a penis and getting hard is hardly "weird". I'm sure he didn't beat off to the thought of his kid...

 

[Eugenics 5,000+ posts]

This is kind of interesting.

At its heart, its an attraction, its in the brain, not something he can help at all. He must be very confused at the moment, there could be a lot of things going on, it could be something completely different. Sounds like he's been through some traumatic experiences.

It's important to remember that this does not make him a *********, certainly not at this point. It's one thing to have the thoughts, another to act on them. He clearly knows this is wrong, and is bothered by it. But like i said, it may be something entirely different.

At any rate, its attraction, yes it seems disgusting right now, and it may very well be. But he cannot help it, this does not make him a bad person. And it certainly sounds like he has no intentions. He has confided this information and concern in you, dont cast a good man aside. Help your friend.

 

[Eugenics 5,000+ posts]

On a side note, i can get an erection from the vibrations on a bus ride. I'm not attracted to the bus.

 

[ss3079 5,000+ posts]

Pretty ****ed up.

 

[faulkton 5,000+ posts]

the key thing is what he thought about when beating it.

 

[Eugenics 5,000+ posts]

I'm not defending the act, just trying to put a perspective on it.