Yeah, on the power thing, here's the deal: When you go 8 ohm, rather than 4 ohm, the added resistance will cut the supply of power from your amp by half, ie an amp that makes 100w at 4 ohm will make 50w at 8 ohm. Big difference? Not really. Cutting your power in half really only reduces the real-world output by 3db, which is barely noticeable. So, no, 8 ohm is not necessarily a bad thing and if it means you can get a better speaker, it's definitely worth it.
That being said, PE offers a 4ohm version of their Dayton Reference driver that many people swear by. Of course, the metal cone means you'll have to deal with some resonance (via crossover adjustment), but they draw high praise and are fairly cheap. If you're going active and use a tweeter that can play low, they might be a very good choice.