2kchevy06civic
5,000+ posts
Learn to swim
exactly, my room mates I have now(I'm moving out) think that they can do whatever they want and not say anything to anyone else. Whenever you are each paying rent and each splitting bills you all have an equal say with what goes on in the house. Whenever someone tries to control everything, they are stepping over the boundary line. Sounds to me like you can't understand this and should just live on your own. Problem solved.The problem with your way of thinking is that you are saying you don't trust your roommate and she can't become friends with your friends and let them hang out with her. Sounds to me like you can't truly handle having a roommate. If they are paying rent how do you tell them they can't have people over when you aren't there? Lock your shit up and move on or kick out the roommate. Or just end yourself.
