Trying to catch my roommate cheating on bf with my best friend need advice.

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

While everyone called you an ******* when you left the room lol

I'd be too stupid to even think about that. So it wouldnt bother me. hahaha

 

[savagebee 10+ year member]

how about this..

you're a whiny selfish little shit who is pissed off your buddy is boning a chick better looking than your woman..

you have mommy issues

you're a jealous little wannabe balla

you're a shitty roommate

you're a shitty friend..

your friend is getting laid.. congratulate him

get over yourself

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

I feel sorry for your girlfriend

 

[UndercoverPunk 5,000+ posts]

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[IamDeMan 5,000+ posts]

I'd be too stupid to even think about that. So it wouldnt bother me. hahaha

TR00! You may be on to something. I guess ignorance truly is bliss?

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

I want him to reply agaib

 

[2002XLT 5,000+ posts]

lol good to see this thread is still alive and kickin...

OP needs to smoke a doobie..

 

[Safe-N-Sound215 10+ year member]

You are not thinking this through. If you were you wouldnt be coming up with all these childish "revenge" attempts. You forget, SHE LIVES WITH YOU, itd be different if she didnt know who you were and where you live. You call all these friends over in the morning. Ok she gets mad, but she lives with you, she can have *** on your bed and have that guy bust a nut on your pillow, she can put nair in your shampoo. Of course you woudl retaliate and things would escalate and escalate til something physical goes down and someone gets arrested.

I wanna do that to somebody. That would be f-ed up, but funny as hell at the same time. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif

"wtf? My head is burning!"

"why is my hair falling out?"

 

[UndercoverPunk 5,000+ posts]

Bump.

 

[savagebee 10+ year member]

I was thinking the exact same thing a bit ago.. but decided not to..

soudnds better now

 

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

OK news update on what’s going on last night around 8 pm the guy comes over doesn’t call me or my roommate and just shows up with another guy that my roommate doesn’t like an neither do I. We did not know he was coming over so anyways he brings him over and I thought it was her bf looking thru the peep hole not very bright and her bf is tall and is the guy my ex friend brought over. SO I opened the door and looked at him then closed it right back. He got pissed started hitting on my door really hard. I knew I pissed him off it was my goal to so he would hit me to get the restraining order so after I closed the door in his face I went 1 min later and took the garbage out its kind of far walk form my apt. So he was in his car about to leave when he saw my my gf and my roommate all going out my gf was following me and my roommate was going to Kroger. So he gets out of his car and yells and yells I ignore him and keep walking to the dumpster then he grabs my shirt and is screaming at me even louder now rdy to hit me b/c I pissed him off by closing the door in his face, He was about to hit me but his friend pulled him off of before he did and he was trying to do it again so I yelled in his face twice saying do you wanna go to jail over me. Of course he didn’t say anything. This is a guy who doesn’t think or care when he is angry. SO anyways he yells and says you got something to say to me then say it to my face, and I said I told you not to come over when I wasn’t home and you did it anyways. He shut up real quick and he didn’t says a word then his friend got in my face and started shit with my b/c the other guy told him some lies I think he said I that I said that I think him and another guy were losers and would never mount to anything grant it they don’t work and just smoke pot and goes from job to job to job either getting fired or never going in just working enough to pay bills. Anyways I don’t know if I said that I don’t remember saying it so I cant say if it was true or not but when the first guy was yelling at me there was a lot of ppl watching so I had witnesses if anything happened. I didn’t reply to what he says I just kept walking towards the dumpster to throw away my trash. SO my roommate saw it all and now she is scared of him b/c how he acted. She didn’t even want him over I found out a lot of things after she left and came back from Kroger. we talked for 2 hrs and I found out that he only told her his side of the story and that he was saying everything to make me look bad. So once I explained things out to her she understood and now she is taking my side and she agreed she doesn’t want him over that much either because he would be over everyday and she said she would maybe want to see him once a week or twice a month. She told me I should of just came and talked to her at the beginning and she would of understood b/c she realized after this week he was over everyday b/c he has no where to go after work. She me and my roommate squared everything off. She is now going to make up excuses to not see him because he keeps coming over. lol. I'll update more on me and my friend when more comes. It will be a few days cause he is still mad.

 

[SocMunky 10+ year member]

so your telling me you want your roommate to have your friend sover to bug you when you dont want them over? i dont care if she has ppl over i just dont want my friends over when i dont want them there. Its a simple concept My friend wants to bang her and is trying to be all goody goody with her and make me look bad and to be on her good side so he can keep coming over to see her. Now i dont want to see him every **** day. But updates on the thread, I found out hes been over everday when i was at work and i also drove home from ups yesterday and he was parked at y apartment i went it and went back before he came to my door he was on his cell he tried to talk to me but i just drove off then he calls me later i dont answer and he leaves me a voice mail saying lets hang out tonight even though i am mad at him for telling him not to come over when i wasnt around he still doesnt respect our friendship. SO sry bout th run ons and shit. Anyways i dont call him back but yet he still comes over to my house and bangs on the door for like 10 min like he wont get the **** hint i dont wanna see him u know. SO then he calls me after that and leaves me another voice mail about how i wont answer his calls or the door. Well duh i told you not to come over when i wasnt home we had a 3 hrs talk about all this shit before all this started and yet he still *****es about it cause I didnt want him to come over to my roommate. So i hope he gets the hint we are not friends anymore because he wants to chose a girl over respecting his friends privacy. I dont even know if he goes thru my room or not when i am gone and you ppl say i should put a lock on it I shouldnt have to put a lock on my room its my ****ing house so stfu before you ppl say it!. Ill keep you guys updated on the situation I am still debating on telling my roommates bf that she is cheating on him with another guy but if i do they might break up then this guy will always be over to ruin my life.

Good lord man stop acting like a bitch. Delete your ****, or copy it to a dvd and then delete it. Or hell man, just stop wacking it so damn much! If your friend/ex-friend is trying to bang your room mate, then either kick out the roommate (assuming its your house, I dunno) or get used to listening to a headboard hitting the wall at nights. GD man, don't cockblock the dude.

 

[dragnix 5,000+ posts]

OK news update on what’s going on last night around 8 pm the guy comes over doesn’t call me or my roommate and just shows up with another guy that my roommate doesn’t like an neither do I. We did not know he was coming over so anyways he brings him over and I thought it was her bf looking thru the peep hole not very bright and her bf is tall and is the guy my ex friend brought over. SO I opened the door and looked at him then closed it right back. He got pissed started hitting on my door really hard. I knew I pissed him off it was my goal to so he would hit me to get the restraining order so after I closed the door in his face I went 1 min later and took the garbage out its kind of far walk form my apt. So he was in his car about to leave when he saw my my gf and my roommate all going out my gf was following me and my roommate was going to Kroger. So he gets out of his car and yells and yells I ignore him and keep walking to the dumpster then he grabs my shirt and is screaming at me even louder now rdy to hit me b/c I pissed him off by closing the door in his face, He was about to hit me but his friend pulled him off of before he did and he was trying to do it again so I yelled in his face twice saying do you wanna go to jail over me. Of course he didn’t say anything. This is a guy who doesn’t think or care when he is angry. SO anyways he yells and says you got something to say to me then say it to my face, and I said I told you not to come over when I wasn’t home and you did it anyways. He shut up real quick and he didn’t says a word then his friend got in my face and started shit with my b/c the other guy told him some lies I think he said I that I said that I think him and another guy were losers and would never mount to anything grant it they don’t work and just smoke pot and goes from job to job to job either getting fired or never going in just working enough to pay bills. Anyways I don’t know if I said that I don’t remember saying it so I cant say if it was true or not but when the first guy was yelling at me there was a lot of ppl watching so I had witnesses if anything happened. I didn’t reply to what he says I just kept walking towards the dumpster to throw away my trash. SO my roommate saw it all and now she is scared of him b/c how he acted. She didn’t even want him over I found out a lot of things after she left and came back from Kroger. we talked for 2 hrs and I found out that he only told her his side of the story and that he was saying everything to make me look bad. So once I explained things out to her she understood and now she is taking my side and she agreed she doesn’t want him over that much either because he would be over everyday and she said she would maybe want to see him once a week or twice a month. She told me I should of just came and talked to her at the beginning and she would of understood b/c she realized after this week he was over everyday b/c he has no where to go after work. She me and my roommate squared everything off. She is now going to make up excuses to not see him because he keeps coming over. lol. I'll update more on me and my friend when more comes. It will be a few days cause he is still mad.

cliff notes plz, i'm not reading all that shiz

 

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

short terms friend tries to fight me scares off my roommate now she is scared and she is on my side now lol read the rest for the extra details.

 

[SocMunky 10+ year member]

i am thiniking plenty trhoguh i am tired of my food being eaten by him and him over when i dont want to see him. but its cool i am just going to keep pissing him off when he comes over i will never answer the door ha hah a.

Holy crap dude, you're complaining about food? Can ya get a dorm fridge in your room? Let me ask you this.....who's house is it? Your's? Is your's and her name on the lease? If this is the case, do what someone suggested.. Get a dorm fridge, put your food in there, get a lock on your door and STFU.

If its just your name on the lease, have her kicked out if its such a big deal. Don't be surprised though if your "friend" kicks your *** for that one however.