stepdad in hospital, having kidney/liver failure..

[mast240 10+ year member]

very sorry to hear this brother... stay strong, and know that you are in our thoughts and prayers

 

[Buck 5,000+ posts]

Sorry man. Just keep your head up.

 

[jtomsic 5,000+ posts]

thanks guys means alot, i just feel terrible because i went out of town for work to nyc and got back the day before this happened and i yelled at him cause he was sick and wouldnt goto hospital..and that was last time i talk to him before i saw him at hospital..but he was in a medically induced coma... i just hate knowin the last thing i said was yellin at him even though it was out of care for him... i never got to tell him i loved him and he was a great dad.

 

[disturbed471985 5,000+ posts]

thanks guys means alot, i just feel terrible because i went out of town for work to nyc and got back the day before this happened and i yelled at him cause he was sick and wouldnt goto hospital..and that was last time i talk to him before i saw him at hospital..but he was in a medically induced coma... i just hate knowin the last thing i said was yellin at him even though it was out of care for him... i never got to tell him i loved him and he was a great dad.

Thats one thing a son never has to tell his dad. He already knows. I am so very sry for ur loss though. I never had a father figure in my life so I may not fully understand the loss of a father but I do have a mother and when her time comes I am positive I will shut down and lose it. She is my father and mother all in one.

 

[jtomsic 5,000+ posts]

Thats one thing a son never has to tell his dad. He already knows. I am so very sry for ur loss though.

yeah thats what my mom said... i just hope he really did know..

 

[tommelleo22 10+ year member]

in my prayers bro.

 

[disturbed471985 5,000+ posts]

yeah thats what my mom said... i just hope he really did know..

Someday you will be together again until then be sure to take care of your mother!! She will need you now more then ever!!

 

[smgreen20 10+ year member]

I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my father-in-law 2 rears ago, 5 days later I lost my dad. My stepdad has had his issues with health in the past and I care for him more then ever now. I'd be lost w/o him as he's been more of a father figure then my actual dad, not to say my dad wasn't a good father cause he was.

None the less, I will still pray for your families loss.

 

[bubbagumper6 5,000+ posts]

yeah thats what my mom said... i just hope he really did know..

He knew man, they always do. Parents love their children unconditionally. Sorry for your loss.

 

[mast240 10+ year member]

you didnt have to tell him how much you loved him bro.... he knew. even when you were yelling at him to go to the hospital, i'm sure he knew it was out of love. trust me, that one argument will not take away from a lifetime of love... dont beat yourself up about it bro. my wife had something similar happen with a very close family member, and she still (after 6 years) wont let it go... i try to tell her, that one situation doesnt change an entire lifetime of love and family. but she still holds guilt towards it... trust me bro... you dont want to do it to yourself... after seeing the woman i love go through it, it's like re-living the loss every single day.

once again bro... very sorry for your loss... and know that there are others out there who support and pray for you and your family. i know theres alot of flaming that happens on this site... but there are still guys on here (including myself) who would be willing to help out a fellow member, in anyway possible.... so, if you need ANYTHING, please let us know

 

[jtomsic 5,000+ posts]

you didnt have to tell him how much you loved him bro.... he knew. even when you were yelling at him to go to the hospital, i'm sure he knew it was out of love. trust me, that one argument will not take away from a lifetime of love... dont beat yourself up about it bro. my wife had something similar happen with a very close family member, and she still (after 6 years) wont let it go... i try to tell her, that one situation doesnt change an entire lifetime of love and family. but she still holds guilt towards it... trust me bro... you dont want to do it to yourself... after seeing the woman i love go through it, it's like re-living the loss every single day.

once again bro... very sorry for your loss... and know that there are others out there who support and pray for you and your family. i know theres alot of flaming that happens on this site... but there are still guys on here (including myself) who would be willing to help out a fellow member, in anyway possible.... so, if you need ANYTHING, please let us know

thanks bro i really appreciate it... and everyone else on here for their kind words..