It's not hard to find any
eBay auctions someone has participated in (whether winner or not) in the last 30 days if you know their
eBay username - I took a guess and figured you use the same username there that you do here...and I was right. Further I guessed that it was the most recent auction that you won and again, I was right. Just like you see posted so often here ~ "Search" function exists for a reason.
I cannot answer how long PayPal takes to process a refund as I have never had to utilize that myself. I'm pretty picky about who I'll buy from on
eBay and thus far that pickiness has served me well. To be protected under the Seller Protection Policy a seller has to ship using an online trackable courier (UPS, DHL, FedEx, etc) by which there can be no question about a shipment reaching its destination.
PayPal only allows for a refund request due to failure to receive won auction items for 30 days after EOA (End Of Auction). In your case, that would be July 15th.
If you've not heard something from your seller or received those Premier subs by July 14th I'd start that refund request process on that day.
What you
can do right now is pull your seller's User Information using
this link. (you'll have to be signed into
eBay under your ID to use it) That will give you the name, physical address, email address, and telephone number that he used to register with
eBay originally. If you've heard nothing in a few days (reasonable time for the wife to be released) then give him a call and then go from there.