R.I.P Max Mercer

Does the age matter?
In this industry a lot of various things matter that shouldn't. If you want try and be a part of it then you will need to clean up the way you post. Remember if you upset the wrong person a simple phone call can remove you from almost any position.

 
Sorry to hear it Op. When I was 16 I lost one of my best friends and band mate over some guns. He got paranoid and took his own life over nothing. I know what its like man. And back when I was in school we lost 10 people just in the 4 years I was in HS. Cancer, *******, car wrecks, over doses, man I've been through it all and its hard when you're young to comprehend all that.

 
Family and friends are more important then anything in this world and should be cherished. never know when you may or may not see them again
^^ Very much this. skar this is tragic and I'm sorry hear about this; my thoughts go out to his family and those close to him.

I agree completely with skar on this one; it's kind of refreshing to see some people who care on here. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/tongue.gif.6130eb82179565f6db8d26d6001dcd24.gif

plugitin - //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wow.gif.23d729408e9177caa2a0ed6a2ba6588e.gif dude I don't even know what to say. I hope for your sake and of those around you that you acquire some empathy and compassion at some point in life.

 
plugitin - //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wow.gif.23d729408e9177caa2a0ed6a2ba6588e.gif dude I don't even know what to say. I hope for your sake and of those around you that you acquire some empathy and compassion at some point in life.
I feel bad for the kid and his familly, but once you have been put through the 'meat grinder' a few times its hard to feel that sorry for someone else who probably didn't have that much to deal with.... try for example finding out the women you love has been screwing around on you, then end up losing everything you have including your kids over it... Thats a situation a lot of men have to deal with...

To that end as far as I'm concerned the kid bitched out...

 
but once you have been put through the 'meat grinder' a few times its hard to feel that sorry for someone else who probably didn't have that much to deal with....
Fair enough. Still there are good people in the world and too many people have been hardened by such emotional trauma to cynicism and apathy. To each his own, but IMHO people should exercise common courtesy more, such as at least being a little sensitive to the affected persons when there is a death.

 
I hope, if you ever hit a very low spot in your life some day, that you meet someone more empathetic than yourself.
Im sorry to say man, ive been through some rough shit, but i dont need ANYONE else to hold my hand through life. I am who i am, and no one will change that. Ive known people way worse off than most kids or people kill themselves. My mother, and many others wifes and so on i work with, have had life threatening cancer and diseases. I had to stand by at 15 years old and watch my mom go through hell. Have you ever been close to someone who is on chemo? And do you know the main reason shes still here? She wanted to live! She wasnt going to give up. I dont know many people who could go through what she did and come out a live. ******* was NEVER an option for her. Shit happens in life, grow a pair and deal with it

 
Im sorry to say man, ive been through some rough shit, but i dont need ANYONE else to hold my hand through life. I am who i am, and no one will change that. Ive known people way worse off than most kids or people kill themselves. My mother, and many others wifes and so on i work with, have had life threatening cancer and diseases. I had to stand by at 15 years old and watch my mom go through hell. Have you ever been close to someone who is on chemo? And do you know the main reason shes still here? She wanted to live! She wasnt going to give up. I dont know many people who could go through what she did and come out a live. ******* was NEVER an option for her. Shit happens in life, grow a pair and deal with it
while that may be true there are a time for your opinions and a time you should stfu. When someones dealing with tradgedy unless your opinion is going to console them just stfu. I have had everything you mentuioned starting when i was 8. friends accidentally killing themselves playing with guns, family in chemo, coworkers dying from wrecks, my college room mate died in a wreck, family members twisted off into depression adn are not even the same people. I guess you think it makes you a hardass because "so much stuff" happened to you and you feel yu got through it with no help. good for you man, but everyone is different and ALOT of people have had it worse then you and dont feel the need to be hardasses. i call these people adults.. just grow up or STFU

 
while that may be true there are a time for your opinions and a time you should stfu. When someones dealing with tradgedy unless your opinion is going to console them just stfu. I have had everything you mentuioned starting when i was 8. friends accidentally killing themselves playing with guns, family in chemo, coworkers dying from wrecks, my college room mate died in a wreck, family members twisted off into depression adn are not even the same people. I guess you think it makes you a hardass because "so much stuff" happened to you and you feel yu got through it with no help. good for you man, but everyone is different and ALOT of people have had it worse then you and dont feel the need to be hardasses. i call these people adults.. just grow up or STFU
aww, someone cant handle real life?

 
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