One of my buddies killed himself last night

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Dude had a history of depression, his wife and him suffered through 4 miscarriages. That alone was enough stress to destroy his marriage, but after the divorce he sunk pretty deep. He left a new girlfriend who told me today that she is pregnant with his child. Not sure of how it happened or what the final straw was.

Not looking for sympathy, donations or anything else. I just want to give people here this advice....if you think you are depressed, please, go see someone. A counselor, a doctor, maybe a reverend or pastor. That is all

 
Dude had a history of depression, his wife and him suffered through 4 miscarriages. That alone was enough stress to destroy his marriage, but after the divorce he sunk pretty deep. He left a new girlfriend who told me today that she is pregnant with his child. Not sure of how it happened or what the final straw was.
Not looking for sympathy, donations or anything else. I just want to give people here this advice....if you think you are depressed, please, go see someone. A counselor, a doctor, maybe a reverend or pastor. That is all
I'm sorry to hear about that. Some people think that is the way out. Sometimes there's nothing you can do. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif

 
***** mang. Sorry for your loss and believe you me I have some depressed friends that I have tried to help. Sometimes there is only so much you can do. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif I am always there, but it gets hard sometimes.

Man this has got me sad now.

Keep you chin up bud.

 
Man that ***** for real, I think the best reason to live, is the pain and dissapointment my whole family would feel if I was to take that route. I guess suicide is not the answer?!??
nah...there is always something to live for....even if its saturday night bar *****es

 
****. Sorry to hear man. About 3 weeks ago, a friend of mine committed suicide as well. The thing is, she showed no signs of depression at all. We are all confused as to what happened to her. Its always sad to lose someone, but you have to remind yourself that he got to chose his fate instead of it being chosen for him.

 
about 2 weeks ago a good friend of a friend did the same...she was only 17.

this is a permanent solution to a temporary problem...dont do it

 
i dont understand why ppl kille themselves. life wouldnt be interesting or worth living if everything went the way you wanted or expected it to all the time, we are all faced with problems and life is all about dealing with them. no matter what happens or how bad you feel it will always get better. its like when your in a relationship with someone, you dont want it to be perfect and never argue. then you lose interest and end up apart. the best relationships are the ones where you argue but you always work it out. plus the makeup sex is great

 
if you dont mind me asking, how did he actually kill himself?

that puts a strain on his friends, family, and anyone that knew him. i had a "friend" die in a car accident that i rarely talked to, but enough to make me reconsider the important things in life.

alot of people think theyre invincible and hear news such as this, and wake up.

 
i dont understand why ppl kille themselves. life wouldnt be interesting or worth living if everything went the way you wanted or expected it to all the time, we are all faced with problems and life is all about dealing with them. no matter what happens or how bad you feel it will always get better. its like when your in a relationship with someone, you dont want it to be perfect and never argue. then you lose interest and end up apart. the best relationships are the ones where you argue but you always work it out. plus the makeup sex is great
It's very simple. Because people lose hope. Hope is what keeps me going. Hope that one day I'll make a million dollars a day, hope that one day people will think I'm great, hope that one day I will have a family. If life begins to estinguish that hope and there is no longer any light at the tunnel, then suicide becomes a viable option.

 
i just wanted to add that if you know someone who is real depressed, just be a friend....you never know.
sorry about your friend and I hate it for his family.... but this statement is so true, bc sometimes that what ppl need is someone to take their mind off things and put it at ease

 
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