One of my buddies killed himself last night

[bonesninja 5,000+ posts]

Dude had a history of depression, his wife and him suffered through 4 miscarriages. That alone was enough stress to destroy his marriage, but after the divorce he sunk pretty deep. He left a new girlfriend who told me today that she is pregnant with his child. Not sure of how it happened or what the final straw was.

Not looking for sympathy, donations or anything else. I just want to give people here this advice....if you think you are depressed, please, go see someone. A counselor, a doctor, maybe a reverend or pastor. That is all

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[silvercookie 5,000+ posts]

**** sorry mang

 

[bonesninja 5,000+ posts]

i just wanted to add that if you know someone who is real depressed, just be a friend....you never know.

 

[Goindef154 5,000+ posts]

Sorry to hear that.

 

[Grinder1989 5,000+ posts]

Dude had a history of depression, his wife and him suffered through 4 miscarriages. That alone was enough stress to destroy his marriage, but after the divorce he sunk pretty deep. He left a new girlfriend who told me today that she is pregnant with his child. Not sure of how it happened or what the final straw was.
Not looking for sympathy, donations or anything else. I just want to give people here this advice....if you think you are depressed, please, go see someone. A counselor, a doctor, maybe a reverend or pastor. That is all

I'm sorry to hear about that. Some people think that is the way out. Sometimes there's nothing you can do. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif

 

[Pop da Hatch 10+ year member]

What if my depression makes me want to kill other people but not myself?

 

[bonesninja 5,000+ posts]

What if my depression makes me want to kill other people but not myself?

well thats perfectly acceptable....its the other form that worries me.

 

[silvercookie 5,000+ posts]

well, you might want to consider a padded room.
Or just always making sure your on my side of the fight. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

or kill people like broken jaw at least.

 

[bigbangtheory 5,000+ posts]

Sucks mang. Sorry for your loss and believe you me I have some depressed friends that I have tried to help. Sometimes there is only so much you can do. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif I am always there, but it gets hard sometimes.

Man this has got me sad now.

Keep you chin up bud.

 

[Pop da Hatch 10+ year member]

Man that sucks for real, I think the best reason to live, is the pain and dissapointment my whole family would feel if I was to take that route. I guess ******* is not the answer?!??

 

[bonesninja 5,000+ posts]

Man that sucks for real, I think the best reason to live, is the pain and dissapointment my whole family would feel if I was to take that route. I guess ******* is not the answer?!??

nah...there is always something to live for....even if its saturday night bar *****es

 

[atoz350 10+ year member]

****. Sorry to hear man. About 3 weeks ago, a friend of mine committed ******* as well. The thing is, she showed no signs of depression at all. We are all confused as to what happened to her. Its always sad to lose someone, but you have to remind yourself that he got to chose his fate instead of it being chosen for him.

 

[smd4life 5,000+ posts]

about 2 weeks ago a good friend of a friend did the same...she was only 17.

this is a permanent solution to a temporary problem...dont do it

 

[Liquid Bass 10+ year member]

i dont understand why ppl kille themselves. life wouldnt be interesting or worth living if everything went the way you wanted or expected it to all the time, we are all faced with problems and life is all about dealing with them. no matter what happens or how bad you feel it will always get better. its like when your in a relationship with someone, you dont want it to be perfect and never argue. then you lose interest and end up apart. the best relationships are the ones where you argue but you always work it out. plus the makeup *** is great

 

[brtnboarder3241 5,000+ posts]

im sorry man lost my grandfather, and 2 girls that were my friends due to depression and *******, My heart goes out to you, his family and everyone else that knew him.