Oh trust me. You aren't being a **** by any means. I came to the realization that what I would like to think, and what reality was can easily become two completely different things. That's when I had to humble up and rethink my system. Some $ and a year or two later I look back at myself and shake my head.
So when you say power handling and spl aren't necessarily the same thing, how is that so? I mean, I know there's a lot of factors that come into play from cone mass to surface area and especially the box, but if you took an sa12, put it in the optimum spl box for that sub on 900wrms, and then took one of those pioneers and put it in it's own spl ideal box for 900wrms, efficiency and such aside, why wouldn't the pioneer be just as loud?