honestly, you can troll the forum and see how much crap people get regardless of age, gender, or race. because this is pretty unsensored. being a female will automatically get you attention and your actions determine the negativity or positivity of that attention. if they talk crap, dont talk it back if you dont want it to escalate. its like forum physics. it is bound to happen. just man up and take it. dont let your feelings get hurt by a bunch of forever alones that antagonize you.
addition: If you have legitimate questions about car audio or anything mechanically complex, just post up. a few people might say some weaksauce n00b comment but people are more than willing to answer questions as honestly and accurately as possible.