Just found out my girl's pregnant!!!

[mazdakid 5,000+ posts]

Watch out for the hospital bill too. My son was in there for the first 49 days of his life and I think the bill cam to almost 200,000.

 

[HypnoticCure 10+ year member]

start saving for a legal fund... family court sucks...

 

[dman4486 5,000+ posts]

I'm almost 23 and I still cant afford to take care of a kid.

ditto:crap:

I have a woman to pay for :crap:ex dos

 

[smiley2186 10+ year member]

i had my first kid at age 20, and now im 22, the first couple of month when she was born, it was really hard. i couldnt sleep. had to keep an eye on her, rock her to sleep, making milk etc..me and my girl had hard times. but it work out better then i expect. i love my daughter,

so congrats to you..and be prepare to buy lots of diapears...i mean lots..thats where most of my money went to.

 

[CRXBMPN 5,000+ posts]

congrats, get ready to sell your ish even if you dont want to, be prepared to not be able to bump any more with the baby in the car! and be prepared to either marry the girl or be taken for everything you are worth and then some if you piss her off and you guys split up! //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif me and Kove know whats up! lol

 

[Pl8er 5,000+ posts]

I'm not reading 4 pages but seriously bro, congrats! Put no one (well except god) before your little guy/girl and just get ready for a change. Yes, it's HARD...yes you get almost NO sleep....but I swear I have never loved anything more than I love my son. He was my first and born 6 weeks ago (Oct 28th).

It's just amazing. You get to watch this little thing change and grow and you get to make them into the person they will be.

You know, in a way...it's very much like car audio //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif sure the equipment helps, but its all in the install (the time you take to really make them into the right person).

 

[manosteel916 10+ year member]

congarts , prepare for the biggest change in your life but for the better . Its realy amazing to watch them grow they say and do alot of funny things.

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

I am glad i don't have kids. I have a cat and that is enough responsibility for me.

 

[blackbonnie 5,000+ posts]

I'm not reading 4 pages but seriously bro, congrats! Put no one (well except god) before your little guy/girl and just get ready for a change. Yes, it's HARD...yes you get almost NO sleep....but I swear I have never loved anything more than I love my son. He was my first and born 6 weeks ago (Oct 28th).
It's just amazing. You get to watch this little thing change and grow and you get to make them into the person they will be.

You know, in a way...it's very much like car audio //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif sure the equipment helps, but its all in the install (the time you take to really make them into the right person).

that made my day

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

I dunno why people are saying that OP is too young. What's done is done, he cannot undo it. The best advice is to let him know what to expect. I would have anxiety about whether or not my child would meet my expectations.

 

[blackbonnie 5,000+ posts]

I dunno why people are saying that OP is too young. What's done is done, he cannot undo it. The best advice is to let him know what to expect. I would have anxiety about whether or not my child would meet my expectations.

and thats how i feel. do i wish i was older when this happened? yes, but i cant change it now. i just have to make the best of everything and give the kid the best possible life i can give it. im nervous but at the same time i am very excited...

 

[Orion Man 10+ year member]

Thats awesome! Congrats. Being a young father isn't a bad thing. Take it from me though, wait to have another. It'll be alot easier.

 

[Orion Man 10+ year member]

and thats how i feel. do i wish i was older when this happened? yes, but i cant change it now. i just have to make the best of everything and give the kid the best possible life i can give it. im nervous but at the same time i am very excited...

At least you have a positive attitude about it. Being a parent is a great joy. Whether it be a boy or a girl. Love him/her unconditionally.

 

[manosteel916 10+ year member]

aged doesnt dictate maturity decisions do, aslong as you preapre for whats ahead and confident in your self that youll do the right thing when the time comes then your all good

 

[Pl8er 5,000+ posts]

and thats how i feel. do i wish i was older when this happened? yes, but i cant change it now. i just have to make the best of everything and give the kid the best possible life i can give it. im nervous but at the same time i am very excited...

I think you have already shown your maturity by accepting responsibility and looking for the future.

Keep us up-to-date on when he (going to just go with it cause that is what you want) is due and how things are going.

Try to be there for your girl as much as possible. She is going to go through some crazy stuff and will really need your support.