Is there anyway to find out if a baby's mine before it comes out?

[mikeyboc 10+ year member]

$400 now or $64,800 over the next 18 years if it is yours ($300 / mo child support) Do the math and don't take the chance if she is willing to do it.

 

[Phrozt 10+ year member]

so... you don't ******** then.. do you?

 

[937DYTBOI 5,000+ posts]

I urge you to reconsider the whole abortion thing. It hurts me to think of all the kids that have been killed by it. It's sad to think that abortion has become a means of birth control. I promise you that if you go on and have the kid, you'll never regret it, and you'll wonder why you ever considered it. I have friends who have kids who considered abortion, and they all love their kids dearly, no matter if they're with the baby's father anymore.
Please reconsider.

exactly my situation and how i feel

x2

 

[mikeyboc 10+ year member]

I have two kids now, and can't imagine not having them, but he is in a different situation. Having a mother and father not be together from the get go is not exactly the most loving and nurturing environment to raise a child in.

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

I urge you to reconsider the whole abortion thing. It hurts me to think of all the kids that have been killed by it. It's sad to think that abortion has become a means of birth control. I promise you that if you go on and have the kid, you'll never regret it, and you'll wonder why you ever considered it. I have friends who have kids who considered abortion, and they all love their kids dearly, no matter if they're with the baby's father anymore.
Please reconsider.

That is contrary to everyone I know. Once the kid is here, they love them and are glad to have them, but if they could avoid the situation entirely, they would have.

Also, I don't see abortion as killing kids. That to me is the same as saying spermicide kills kids because it kills sperm.

I also hate that my tax dollars will be used to feed the kid if the mom is some kind of a ***** and goes on welfare and whatnot because they can't support the kid. Don't just think about yourself, think of the other people you are helping as well.

I would pay if there was a chance of it being mine. Make sure she goes and doesn't spend the money on blow or something.

 

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

That is contrary to everyone I know. Once the kid is here, they love them and are glad to have them, but if they could avoid the situation entirely, they would have.
Also, I don't see abortion as killing kids. That to me is the same as saying spermicide kills kids because it kills sperm.

I also hate that my tax dollars will be used to feed the kid if the mom is some kind of a ***** and goes on welfare and whatnot because they can't support the kid. Don't just think about yourself, think of the other people you are helping as well.

I would pay if there was a chance of it being mine. Make sure she goes and doesn't spend the money on blow or something.

After years of the ongoing national debate on abortion, we have this crap. Do you think this is enlightening in some way? It's the fodder for a trailer park debate. GTFO you fool.

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

After years of the ongoing national debate on abortion, we have this crap. Do you think this is enlightening in some way? It's the fodder for a trailer park debate. GTFO you fool.

Enlighten me then, wise one.

 

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

Enlighten me then, wise one.

That's just the point -- it's impossible. You are an idiot. What was it you said? "this is contrary to everyone I know." I can't help you.

 

[Phrozt 10+ year member]

lol.. you think gay marriage is wrong too?

hardcore christians are effing morons.

If you even knew the history of the construction of the bible, you'd probably be very suprised.

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

I've come to the conclusion that theres no use in arguing for or against abortion, gay marraige and the like. no ones gonna change their mind. It aint gonna stop me from trying to persuade, but i aint gonna argue about it. it's useless.

I wasn't arguing...I was kind of agreeing with you in a way....

That AFTER the fact, most parents enjoy having the kids. But at the same time, they are unexpected sacrifices. They leaped before the looked more or less. And those people do not like the consequences they deal with because of their decision. But they at never at any point said "I just wished I had an abortion so I don't have to deal with you" or anything like that. Sorry if that wasn't clear.

 

[Phrozt 10+ year member]

That's just the point -- it's impossible. You are an idiot. What was it you said? "this is contrary to everyone I know." I can't help you.

So.. he's an idiot for having a belief based upon first hand imperical knowledge? Do you even know what rationality is?

 

[937DYTBOI 5,000+ posts]

lol.. you think gay marriage is wrong too?
hardcore christians are effing morons.

If you even knew the history of the construction of the bible, you'd probably be very suprised.

what is the history of the construction of the bible?

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

That's just the point -- it's impossible. You are an idiot. What was it you said? "this is contrary to everyone I know." I can't help you.

That is quite presumptuous of you isn't it. I do listen to other points of view and I do change my stance when presented with new information or old information presented in a way which illustrates the argument in a more effective manner, or atleast in a manner in which is clearer for me.

Which part of my comment do you think I am 'idiot' for the most. I don't intend or want to turn this into an argument, as I don't believe you have the capacity to do so in a calm and collected manner without the namecalling and whatnot.

 

[AphexTwin 10+ year member]

you reccomend using condom and pulling out?

**** style FTW

 

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

So.. he's an idiot for having a belief based upon first hand imperical knowledge? Do you even know what rationality is?

WTF are you talking about Phrotz??? What the guy said makes no sense. Nor, if you can weed through his poor sentence structure, is what he is saying insightful. That is all on that.

Now, to your desire for gay marriage. Of course that is wrong. If you have gay marriage, you are going to have gay divorce. Divorce was meant to be between a man and a woman.