Is there anyway to find out if a baby's mine before it comes out?

[XaznKewLguyX 10+ year member]

So my ex gf is pregnant. Is there anyway to find out if the kid is mine before it comes out.? Me and my ex were together for a year and a half. We split up for about two months but she still spent the night every now and then and you know... but the past month she has been seeing some other guy but she swore that they have not done anything.

So... I was wondering if there is anyway to find out if its mine before it comes out. We are going for an abortion tomorrow morning and I really dont want to pay $400 for something that isnt mine.

HELP ME OUT HERE FELLAS!

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[bri487 5,000+ posts]

if you have to question it you arent in a great position. sorry dude. if you trust her and she is completely honest with you, then go with it and have a test done after the baby is born.

 

[wilzyx 5,000+ posts]

pay me 20 and ill stick a coat hanger in her vajna, cheap abortions are the way to go.

 

[XaznKewLguyX 10+ year member]

if you have to question it you arent in a great position. sorry dude. if you trust her and she is completely honest with you, then go with it and have a test done after the baby is born.

is this possible? How much do you think it will cost me? and what do they do, like do they take my blood sample or anything?

 

[bri487 5,000+ posts]

pay me 20 and ill stick a coat hanger in her vajna, cheap abortions are the way to go.

give her the ream job.

 

[dleccord 5,000+ posts]

did you guys just find out or something? hope its not too late

 

[bri487 5,000+ posts]

is this possible? How much do you think it will cost me? and what do they do, like do they take my blood sample or anything?

blood samples. i dont know about the cost. if you two arent together, the insurance will probably cover it to settle child support issues.

 

[cleanerupper 10+ year member]

How far along is she?

 

[90accordman 5,000+ posts]

thing is if it is his he's gonna get zapped forchild support like a mutha instead of having an agreement with the mother

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

Just pay the $400 and dont worry about it. Seriously, I dont understand how you could even be debating paying it right now. If you are questioning if it is yours. Pay it, better than having her change her mind and then it turn out to be yours when you werent ready, then having to pay a lot more than that over the years.

Oh and see the official condom thread.

Holy shit you're cheap, dude ...
You're lucky she's getting an abortion as it is ...

This is where I was going next. Most girls feel very bad about it, if you are going to do it, do it now so neither of you have time to really think about it (especially her).

 

[XaznKewLguyX 10+ year member]

She is already 100% positive getting it im just worried on figuring out if its mine or not so I don't have to pay for some other guys mistake.

and plus i might want another chance with her in the future so i know if she was faithful to me or not.

EDIT: She doesn't want to keep it but I did.

 

[dleccord 5,000+ posts]

lol... whats this forum coming to??

 

[bri487 5,000+ posts]

lol... whats this forum coming to??

me getting other members girls pregnant.

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

She is already 100% positive getting it im just worried on figuring out if its mine or not so I don't have to pay for some other guys mistake.
and plus i might want another chance with her in the future so i know if she was faithful to me or not.

EDIT: She doesn't want to keep it but I did.

Are you sure she wants another chance with you in the future? Pay the $400 and be done. How would that have anything to do with having a chance with her in the future. Sounds like the role is reversed and you tried to trap her with a baby.

Dleccord, I dont know. Really weird stuff going on up in huuurrrr.

 

[supa_c 5,000+ posts]

paternity test...

or go on maury !