I'm going to die!?

[Sentinel 10+ year member]

if you guys have been together for a while, she never told him you were her boyfriend? how come he was so surprised when he JUST found out? don't you think she should have mentioned OH BY THE WAY I HAVE A BOYFRIEND.

 

[smd4life 5,000+ posts]

brass nucks ftw

lose the girl and the drama

 

[AVSTANG02]

The guy threatens to kill you and she still leaves with him to go to school heh..

The girl is totally not respecting you.

and what does she expect this dude to take her to school for 3+ years shes their? she needs to come to another solution about her school being 4 miles away.

Your getting punked dude... she obviously does not have a problem with this guy being around cause if she actually did she'd tell him to **** off..

Forget about Love and *** you need to break up with her cause shes a flake.

Especially if shes letting this muslim dude control her...

If you have a restraining over put on him atleast when yer around he cant get near her..

and if you attack him he will definately be back for more.. he will not back down that easy.. he will definately seek revenge..

you should just say **** it.. its not worth it..

Also these guys have a huge problem respecting their woman.. they treat them like shit.. so it would be good for yer gf to just seperate herself from this guy cause eventually he's going to become a real problem...

 

[PollyCranopolis 10+ year member]

Thanks for the outpouring of advice all. I wont have a chance to see my GF until at least this time next week, so this will be some good chill time to sit back and wait for her to call me up and apologize (I know she will). I'm basically just going to lay it out to her. If she won't do somthing bout this guy, then I'm not going to talk to her anymore, simple as that. I'm sure she will try to turn it around to somthing like ("you want me to fail out because I cant make it to class? You don't care!" bullshit, but I'm not goin for that. I've invested way to much time and effort into this to be ****ed. I guess this will be the true test to see if she really gives a shit about me. If that ******* gives me anymore issues, I WILL call the law cause I'm sick of this shit. I won't be beating this guy with fists, so I figure I'll just carry a big stick just in case. Hope I don't have to use it, cause I figure I'd have to beat this guy half to death before he'd stay down. I'm just gona hafta stay clear for a week or so and see whats up.

 

[Phrozt 10+ year member]

heh.. you don't see her for a week....

where do you think she's getting her dick from?

Here's a hint: He sees her every day and is very protective.

 

[lilwheezy7d5 10+ year member]

good luck man, keep us updated

 

[davidfre21 5,000+ posts]

aluminum tire thumper FTW

If u get pulled over, just say your dad is a trucker and u havent had a chance to drop it off to him yet.

Thought i'd mention, there is a difference between Premeditated assult and self defence... have your back up story ready

 

[supraman1379 10+ year member]

Beat his ***

 

[Rmsanger 10+ year member]

Thanks for the outpouring of advice all. I wont have a chance to see my GF until at least this time next week, so this will be some good chill time to sit back and wait for her to call me up and apologize (I know she will). I'm basically just going to lay it out to her. If she won't do somthing bout this guy, then I'm not going to talk to her anymore, simple as that. I'm sure she will try to turn it around to somthing like ("you want me to fail out because I cant make it to class? You don't care!" bullshit, but I'm not goin for that. I've invested way to much time and effort into this to be ****ed. I guess this will be the true test to see if she really gives a shit about me. If that ******* gives me anymore issues, I WILL call the law cause I'm sick of this shit. I won't be beating this guy with fists, so I figure I'll just carry a big stick just in case. Hope I don't have to use it, cause I figure I'd have to beat this guy half to death before he'd stay down. I'm just gona hafta stay clear for a week or so and see whats up.

You might want to consider the idea that he's giving it too her on the side. Most Arabs have a sense of Ownership over women as the view them more like property. So for all the favors he's doing for her makes her = his property in his mind. An easy way to solve this.... step it up and be a man, if you "love" her then move in together. Move her out of her apartment and into yours. Have her stop talking to Osama and it's a done deal. If you're not that serious about her then call it off and be done with it... Problem solved.

 

[protonman 10+ year member]

she is a nut case, trust me. I have seen a few women like this. best thing is get the *** while its there and free, but get some condoms on man. No DNA test later with nut case chasing you for child alimony or DNA test for daddy.

Don't get serious about this chick, no good for you now and in future. Seems like she has a lot of mental issues which you don't need. And as for this big dude, just fight him anyway, may get your *** kicked but than you would respect you and not bother you any more, hopefully. In highschool, this bigger kid would make jokes and comments, throw little jabs at me and one day I blew up at him. I got one good punch at him and did damage but then he got up and threw me to the ground and beat me, not that bad. But he never bothered me again.

But that might not work as you are dealing with crazy mental case from the afghanistan.

so in the end, the chick and this crazy dude deserve each other as they both seem like mental cases. Just be thankfullly atleast that you some *** before you leave this situation.

 

[iLL-Faded 10+ year member]

Time to get a Sig Sauer P229R

 

[PollyCranopolis 10+ year member]

The guy threatens to kill you and she still leaves with him to go to school heh..
The girl is totally not respecting you.

and what does she expect this dude to take her to school for 3+ years shes their? she needs to come to another solution about her school being 4 miles away.

Your getting punked dude... she obviously does not have a problem with this guy being around cause if she actually did she'd tell him to **** off..

Forget about Love and *** you need to break up with her cause shes a flake.

Especially if shes letting this muslim dude control her...

If you have a restraining over put on him atleast when yer around he cant get near her..

and if you attack him he will definately be back for more.. he will not back down that easy.. he will definately seek revenge..

you should just say **** it.. its not worth it..

Also these guys have a huge problem respecting their woman.. they treat them like shit.. so it would be good for yer gf to just seperate herself from this guy cause eventually he's going to become a real problem...

She left with him this morning basically to make him shut up, and keep him from kicking my ***. I was laying in bed, and I could hear her yelling at him and punching him the whole time while he was talking shit. SHe was pushing him to keep him from running up in the apartment. She grabbed her things, told me to bolt the door, and rolled out.

Yes, she did not plan properly for school and for transporation. That was her fault. Now she's feeling the sting, and osing her mind.

She states she allowed this to go on because the dude lives a block away, and she does not want to deal with him harrasing her when he stops by (the reason she told him we were just freinds) cause she knows she will more than likely need him for somthing, and does not want to handle the drama from him when she does. She also feels she owes him somthing for him helping her get out of drugs years back.

Really she does have some emotional issues. She cares about everyone so much, she will put up with their shit for fear of hurting their feelings, or ending a freindship on a bad note. She does not have the fortitude to say enough is enough. She's going to have to find it. Her professor yelled at her the other day about somthing, and she was crying and unconsoliable for the rest of the night. She cries alot.

 

[3onDubs 10+ year member]

^^^ Is this guy for real???

This can't be a true story....what a loser. This guy mobs around town with ur chick and that's not the part that bothers you? Flick yourself in the nuts and see if it hurts.

 

[davesexplorer 10+ year member]

lmao

 

[PollyCranopolis 10+ year member]

Like I said earlier, I'm just going to let this ride for a few days and wait for her to call me. Just in case she does not contact me, I'm gona call and see whats up. If I don't like what I hear, she's gone. End of story.

BTW...If I do end up dumping her, I'll post some sexy lingerie pics of her for you guys to check out.