I'm going to die!?

[PollyCranopolis 10+ year member]

My GF just moved back to school to complete her masters program in communications. She lives about an hour away at WVU. She has this old friend named Elias Mohammed that lives about a block away. He's about 6'4, 300lbs, Golden Glove boxer, Pride fighter, his dad was Mr. Afganastan, and he is a very extrememe religious Muslim, constantly raving about how he is the messiah incarnate, and how he is going to save the world from destruction (kind of crazy).

He has known my GF for years, and they initially dated for about a month, but because he is slightly unstable, and has a small penis, my GF has absolutely no interest in him besides freindship at best. He has been coming by, giving her bits of furniture, picking her up food, etc, trying to apparently get her back, when it's obvious to me my GF does not want him as anything besides a passing aquataince. She basically uses him for rides and food when I'm not there, as she does'nt have a car yet or much money, and does feel slightly obligated to him, as years ago he was partially responsible for helping her to get out of drugs, and get her life back together.

So...

The other night I came into town, and surprised my GF, only to have him come over to bug her minutes after I arrived like he always does. He became somewhat distraught after I stated I was her new BF, and basically threatened to snap my neck in 10 seconds if he saw me at her place again. I'm no ***** by any means, having bashed more than a couple skulls in my day, but I'm not afraid to admit my 6'0, 175lb frame would stand little chance aganst this behemoth. On top of this, my GF is practically in tears crying over the fact she hasnt been doing well in school as of yet, and is on the verge of failing out and losing her scholorship. She hasnt slept in 3 days, due to studying, and is practically hysterical.

I don't know what to do. I love her dearly, and I know she loves me, but due to the fact that she has been almost constantly in a non-consolible state of emotional upheval lateley, and a huge, crazy Musim UFC fighting machine is threatening to kill me, I don't really know what my options are regarding this relationship. Before school started, me and my GF were inseperable.

I figure if she can make it through these next couple of weeks, and do better in school, she will be able to calm down and we can go on with our lives, but then I have Mr. Afganistan Jr. to worry about.

Any suggestions on how to handle this from here? I'm at her place right now, and the guy just showed up to drive her to school. She practically had to scream at him, pushing him out the door as she left to keep him from coming in and kicking my ***. I could hear him at the door talking more shit about how he was going to end me.

Anyways, sry for the long post, but anyone have any suggestions? I have to go back to town in a few hours, and it will be a few days before I can come back here to see my GF again. I just deadbolted the door. Can anyone lend a word of advice? Thanks!

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[Twistid 5,000+ posts]

netx time u go over there bring a bat or some homeboys >

 

[naiku 10+ year member]

1st thing I would do is get my GF to stop getting him to give her rides/food. If he is in any way unstable he probably views this as her wanting him to provide for her and thus want him back.

That's the root of your problem right there.

 

[bubbagumper6 5,000+ posts]

buy a gun?

 

[PollyCranopolis 10+ year member]

I seriously doubt a bat would do it unless he gave me a free shot. You'd have to see this guy. A gun would be my bet, but thats just crazy. Re my GF accepting favors, I guess she could stop, but shes sort of in a bind, as she lives 4 miles from school, has no money from her loans yet, and has no way to get around without his help when I'm not there.

 

[wesl56 10+ year member]

drop it like its hot... you never said you were in love with her or she was super good in bed or anything, so just judging the pros vs cons.. id just ditch it

 

[pickup1 5,000+ posts]

restraining order!tell the cops he threatened you!

 

[addisdar 10+ year member]

Call in a tip about a suspected terrorist. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/up2something.gif.dd110ecf3ae4b76050d87598f2f8de7c.gif

 

[bubbagumper6 5,000+ posts]

all of the above....AND BUY A GUN!!! lol

 

[PollyCranopolis 10+ year member]

drop it like its hot... you never said you were in love with her or she was super good in bed or anything, so just judging the pros vs cons.. id just ditch it

Actually, it is the best *** I've ever had, and we do love each other very much. We are best freinds as well, and get along great, having almost everything in common. Thats what sort of sucks about the whole situation.

Funny thing is, apparently years ago, this guy was locked up in a Afgan prison for a month for sending crazy threatening religious letters to the president of his country. His family had connections, and was able to get him released somehow.

 

[wesl56 10+ year member]

this guy was locked up in a Afgan prison for a month for sending crazy threatening religious letters to the president of his country

this guy sounds like a nut!! no telling what he might do... //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/eek.gif.771b7a90cf45cabdc554ff1121c21c4a.gif//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/hide.gif.2d479cfd917eedfe201353b91522ceab.gif

 

[JimJ 5,000+ posts]

Make sure you're cooking pork the next time he's over //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif

 

[LIGHTBEING 10+ year member]

Tell him to log on to caraudio.com, come into this thread and we will all **** him up.

Nah, this is what you do man. If you really want to stay with the chick. You gotta act crazier than him. He smells fear so he is feeding off it. Convert to Islam now! Grow a beard, go get yourself a wandering eye. Then ****ing strap a bomb to yourself and try to get him to go with you on a mission from God.

You will never see him again.

 

[zachzchw 5,000+ posts]

I seriously doubt a bat would do it unless he gave me a free shot. You'd have to see this guy. A gun would be my bet, but thats just crazy. Re my GF accepting favors, I guess she could stop, but shes sort of in a bind, as she lives 4 miles from school, has no money from her loans yet, and has no way to get around without his help when I'm not there.

Something she should have thought of before getting into the situation?

 

[nVRuckus 5,000+ posts]

Sound like she is playing both of you //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif If she continues to see him something more is going on than you were let in on. and BTW he has never fought in UFC or Pride //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif If she wants you she need to tell him to get ****ed and get a restraining order on him if necessary but Im pretty sure something is going on that you are not aware of.