because monogamy is a terrible thing...everyone should go around ****ing everyone...? why dont we all just stop wearing clothes as we have been brainwashed to do by our ridiculous social construction, that way we can even more easily deteriorate the notion that committing to someone and being faithful to a single person is a good thing
would you honestly want your daughter thinking its ok to go around fvcking random guys all the time?
You are totally misconstruing my point.
Throw out all your religious bullshit. Monogamy is based on religion. Go back in time, there was no such thing until all these ideologies came into play. You will not agree with me because you believe in these, so I will not continue to argue this point. However, we as humans are ****** beings, and all monogamy does is limit our sexuality. I'm not saying screw everyone that comes in sight. That was a stupid point to make there. It just means you don't have limits on your sexuality, and if you talk to people in committed open relationships chances are the trust will be 300% more than a "normal" relationship. It's a lot more than what you're making it out to be. You have a feeling of freedom in your relationship, that you are not locked down and controlled by monogamy. That alone, is worth it to me.
Again, I know I'm the minority here and I'll get a lot religious believers and all on me, so this will probably be my last post on this topic. The problem is that commitment to most people mean in terms of ***. It's absurd. It's just like people "saving" themselves for marriage. It's crap made up and forced into our brains by religion. If you can't think outside of those confines, then it isn't for you.
Clearly, if your look at the percentage of people who cheat, and the number of divorces, something is WRONG!!
Why would you want to hold back on a natural urge for ****** pleasure? It doesn't mean ****ing this way and that at all.
You have a wrong conception of what I meant by open relationship, and you need to won't be able to understand fully until your head is outside of society's hold on you.