Forgive Cheating?

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

My best friend just called me and said his girlfriend of almost 5 years he now has pretty solid proof that she cheated. The only thing is it was over a year ago and the problems they were having then have been worked out and things have been great for a long time.

Are you guys able to forgive cheating? Is that even possible? Should he just let this go and wait and see if it happens again? He loves her alot, and sorta understands the situation. During the time she cheated he was thinking about doing it as well, came close a few times but never did..........

Been on the phone with him for like 2 hours. I'm so pissed at her i cant go back to sleep, i cant imagine what hes feeling.

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[chunky cumz 10+ year member]

My best friend just called me and said his girlfriend of almost 5 years he now has pretty solid proof that she cheated. The only thing is it was over a year ago and the problems they were having then have been worked out and things have been great for a long time.

Are you guys able to forgive cheating? Is that even possible? Should he just let this go and wait and see if it happens again? He loves her alot, and sorta understands the situation. During the time she cheated he was thinking about doing it as well, came close a few times but never did..........

Been on the phone with him for like 2 hours. I'm so pissed at her i cant go back to sleep, i cant imagine what hes feeling.

plot a murder!

 

[_DjScrew_ 5,000+ posts]

let that ***** go.

 

[deLeo 10+ year member]

idk... i cheated and its been 2months, we dated for 2years before it happened. she still doesnt forgive me and i understand but she says she will one day which is why i still bother with her.

 

[snoopysnooper 10+ year member]

i forgave my cheating gf once

but no matter what the excuse, unless you have doe it yer self, there is no reason for it

it doesnt matter that he "almost came close" at all.. fact of the matter is, he didnt, she did

if he really loved her, he would ask her why she did it

if there isnt remorse in her voice, its time to let her go and move on..

if she cared, she would want to fix it as much as him

that is all

 

[chunky cumz 10+ year member]

plot a murder

 

[Buck 5,000+ posts]

Let her go.

 

[NightDrifter05 10+ year member]

Well I'd forgive her but I wouldn't go back with her. I had a gf all through high school and we had a relationship of almost 7 years but the first time she cheated that was it. Like the saying goes fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me.

 

[snoopysnooper 10+ year member]

plot a murder

yes, we infact know this..

 

[billjones42 10+ year member]

he should do her sister.

 

[chunky cumz 10+ year member]

plot a murder, but make sure to get her from behind first, put that thumb in the turd cutter and let her have it. then murder.

 

[TIeclipseMOJO 10+ year member]

he should do her sister.

first thing id do too

 

[MisterGrubbs 5,000+ posts]

Everyone makes mistakes. If it was a long time ago, he should have a sit down with her and get the shit settled. She did it, okay, it's not right in any way, but people are going to **** up at some point. That's just me. If it's been back and it's been good for over a year, and she's genuinely upset about it/ feels horrid about it, I say that's a good thing and it will more than likely prevent her from doing it in the future, if she's honestly upset.

I say forgive and forget.

On another note though, it sucks that the trust wont be there for a long time.

 

[nismos14 5,000+ posts]

I would say that forgiving her is one thing, but who says it won't happen again in 10 years? When things are 'bad' again.

Time to slit the throat, I mean let her go.

 

[chunky cumz 10+ year member]

eh, plot a murder, get that thumb in the turd cutter and then go azz2mouth.