ever just feel like not going on anymore.....

[StubbedMyToE 10+ year member]

Prayers are with you right now - Sorry to hear //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif

 

[peas247 10+ year member]

**** man, paryers are with you, i got a 7 month old daughter, i couldnt imagen what your are going through. stay up and strong man and live on for her and your son, you know shes gonna be watchin over you, again i am sorry for your loss

 

[bk12321 10+ year member]

i really cant imagine what you are going through, but weve all had our "lows"...

I thankfully am getting on much better than I was before. Long story short, my dad was going through a horrible divorce (and taking some of it out on me, as well as bringing me into it), my mom was going through breast cancer, plus some other shit was going on, and my girlfriend of over a year broke up with me in the middle of it all.

Just remember, your daughter wouldnt want you to just give up, and your 10 year old son needs you. Shitty things happen, but remember you always still have your son and he has you, and he needs you to be there. Life is tough... but just hang on and it will usually get better before it gets worse.

Good luck and best wishes.

 

[snb778 5,000+ posts]

think about how hard it is for you to cope with losing your 2 year old who you really can't have much of a personal relationship with since she's just started to talk not to long ago......Imagine how hard it would be for everyone in your life who does have a relationship with you if they lost you

I had to watch a girl who I would have given my life for try to hang herself from her shower bar. (where the curtain hangs from).. luckily I was aware there was something wrong, opened the door and saw her there and helped her down. Changed my life forever.. Not a day goes by I don't think about her and hope she's doing well.

If you heard her life story...it puts everything you have into perspective... she was beaten,molested, and pretty much abandoned by her family for no reason. She was a really cool, down to earth, non-materialistic girl, good grades, didnt party much

no matter how hard you think things are... people have it MUCH worse...just gotta find some people who have gone through horrible things to put things into perspective for you, now that they have lived through it

 

[MikeR. 10+ year member]

Wow

I don't really do the whole internet forum thing much, mainly because everytime I'm on here it's usually one pointless thread after another. However, this really just shocked me.

A guy that no one here even knows by his first name, shared his inner most feelings and thoughts on a subject that many of you can't even grasp. Yet everyone on here showed such great support and enthusiasm for him to get on his feet and push on for his daughter. I feel like and outsider looking in on this thread and I can truly say I'm amazed on how well some of you articulated your thoughts and conveyed a real sense of support and friendship. I'm impressed....

To the Father, I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I can't relate in a sense of losing a child, but can relate in the sense of pushing on for somone you love.

A heart felt prayer goes out to you and yours

 

[Ignatowski 5,000+ posts]

start drinking heavily.........the older I get the more I relize who messed up and cruel life can be

 

[snb778 5,000+ posts]

I had to watch a girl who I would have given my life for try to hang herself from her shower bar. (where the curtain hangs from).. luckily I was aware there was something wrong, opened the door and saw her there and helped her down. Changed my life forever.. Not a day goes by I don't think about her and hope she's doing well.

If you heard her life story...it puts everything you have into perspective... she was beaten,molested, and pretty much abandoned by her family for no reason. She was a really cool, down to earth, non-materialistic girl, good grades, didnt party much

start drinking heavily.........the older I get the more I relize who messed up and cruel life can be

drinking is a big part of why this happened....and under the influence is often how people try to harm themselves

 

[GohillaAudio]

with all due respect....to anyone who would come to my face and say "it could be worse" would promptly be beaten to within an inch of there life.......

i appreciate everyone here who has had kind words to say, it has helped me alot, i was actually able to keep some food down today for the first time in a week, as a fellow member has already stated, i am very impressed at the maturity shown to my situation, and i hope you all realize, this would be a much better place if you all put the same thought, and maturity into every post you made.

i myself have been the focus of many flame matches on this forum, and i must say that it is not at all neccisary, just try to keep some peace in this crappy world.....

 

[GohillaAudio]

i just realised the begenning and end of that post competely contradicted themselves.....god im a mess......

 

[casper97ta 10+ year member]

Please keep your head up, nobody deserves what you have to go through and your family is in my prayers. God bless

 

[mannyb18b]

Sorry to hear bro, I just had my first she is 2 weeks old. I couldn't imagine. Hang in there though

 

[GohillaAudio]

im trying to hang in there...

you might want to re-consider the "stunting" i had a buddy that got paralyzed from the neck down after doing a highchair and having his honda fold him in half, some things just arent worth it...and if your like ever other "stunter" i have met, you do wheelies and stoppies on the highway and shit as well.......just be careful man....impressing people isnt worth being a quadroplegic....

 

[ccrobbins 10+ year member]

What you are going through is my worst fear in life.....I lay awake sometimes wondering what I would do. I truely feel for you. I cannot image how you feel. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

 

[mannyb18b]

im trying to hang in there...
you might want to re-consider the "stunting" i had a buddy that got paralyzed from the neck down after doing a highchair and having his honda fold him in half, some things just arent worth it...and if your like ever other "stunter" i have met, you do wheelies and stoppies on the highway and shit as well.......just be careful man....impressing people isnt worth being a quadroplegic....

Well since my daughter was born I have retired my street bikes for street riding/stunt riding, and I am strictly a lot rider. There's alot of people out there that consider themselves "stunters" but there really just giving us that want to take this sport to a professional level a bad name. Thanks for the concerns though, and although lot riding still carries it's risks it atleast takes out the variables of being on the streets, and the speeds are more like 5mph. Riding is a strong passion of mine and it was a huge step to retire street riding cause I love it so much.

 

[GohillaAudio]

Well since my daughter was born I have retired my street bikes for street riding/stunt riding, and I am strictly a lot rider. There's alot of people out there that consider themselves "stunters" but there really just giving us that want to take this sport to a professional level a bad name. Thanks for the concerns though, and although lot riding still carries it's risks it atleast takes out the variables of being on the streets, and the speeds are more like 5mph. Riding is a strong passion of mine and it was a huge step to retire street riding cause I love it so much.

nice to see someone try to be responisble after having a child, no one seems to realize that once you have a kid, you really need to think of him/her first, when we had my daughter i sold my busa and my kawi, was hard for me to do, but i know it was the right thing, alot of guys always say "well, i have been extra careful since i had my child" you can be the best rider out there and still be a red smear on the pavement....its all about other motorists, the main reason i decided to sell mine was because when my ex was 3 months along some retard side swiped me going 50, luckily i was fully geared, but it still sucked when i hit the curb still sliding at around 20, straight to the dome, i still have that helmet, as a reminder that i truely am lucky to be alive, every time i see it hanging on the wall in my garage in almost 2 pieces.....i get chills, but at the same time i realize that god had other plans for me.