do you guys hate...

[brtnboarder3241 5,000+ posts]

When you do so many favor's for your friends, relatives, etc..

But when you ask for a simple one.. That cant even do it, forget about it, ignore it, etc.

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[duece212 5,000+ posts]

When you do so many favor's for your friends, relatives, etc..

But when you ask for a simple one.. That cant even do it, forget about it, ignore it, etc.

Not sure why but I don't mind doing favors for friends and family, but I absolutely hate others doing favors for me. I'm wierd about owing people favors though, just don't like bein in that position.

 

[benchambers80]

I'm the guy that doesn't do the favors.

 

[tez4life Premium Member]

Very, that seriously gets on my nerves with my family and friends. I really dont asked anybody for sh!t but when i do, im in a bad bind. I hate that.

 

[brtnboarder3241 5,000+ posts]

Very, that seriously gets on my nerves with my family and friends. I really dont asked anybody for sh!t but when i do, im in a bad bind. I hate that.

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I could never ask for favors, id be nice just like that but if i really need it and ive helped them out a shitload, they seem to ignore it no matter if its small or big..And i rarely ask for favors, yet always help them.

 

[DDeitz 10+ year member]

yep, i help them move and they wount even give me a reach around, so i say ill settle for the gf (since they dont even have to work then) and they still say no, friggin bastards.

 

[Decado2 10+ year member]

I'm the guy that doesn't do the favors.

I was just about to type that, so I am the hated //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif

 

[MikeofTulsa Moderator]

yep, let a buddy of mine live with me for the last 2 months rent free, only thing he has paid is he bought 30.00 worth of groceries once. well he got a promotion at work and is making more money. he told me he'd start helping pay some bills this week. So i do something i know i shouldnt do, i count on him to help out with bills.......guess what, last night he tells me he's moving out today.

 

[duece212 5,000+ posts]

yep, let a buddy of mine live with me for the last 2 months rent free, only thing he has paid is he bought 30.00 worth of groceries once. well he got a promotion at work and is making more money. he told me he'd start helping pay some bills this week. So i do something i know i shouldnt do, i count on him to help out with bills.......guess what, last night he tells me he's moving out today.

Sad but most people forget the grace they've been given...

 

[MikeofTulsa Moderator]

yep, but i figure it'll all come back to them. they say karma is a b!tch, good thing we are great friends.

 

[speedfreak28 10+ year member]

When you do so many favor's for your friends, relatives, etc..

But when you ask for a simple one.. That cant even do it, forget about it, ignore it, etc.

i have a trucking company , its always hey can you pick this up or move this for me...

i get paid to do this so yea...ill do it for free

 

[miker 5,000+ posts]

I don't mind doing favors, sometimes it turns out great for you and sometimes not..

About a month ago my friend was bringing a girl out to dinner, and wanted to go somewhere nice, but didn't have the moeny at the time, so I lent him some cash.

Well I ask how it went and all and he goes "Oh yeah I didn't even need that money I lent from you"

It's the next weekend and I ask for it back and he goes "Well I don't have it now, but I'll get it back to you soon"

He bought cigs, and gas with it.. Kinda made me upset since it wasn't his money to spend on w/e he wanted.

I ended up getting most of it back over the weekend a month later.. lol

 

[Pl8er 5,000+ posts]

I don't mind helping people out and I almost never ask anyone for anything. I'm very self sustaining.

I think it is selfish to help others thinking that they are now entitled to help me out. *shrug* but that is just me.

 

[miker 5,000+ posts]

I don't mind helping people out and I almost never ask anyone for anything. I'm very self sustaining.
I think it is selfish to help others thinking that they are now entitled to help me out. *shrug* but that is just me.

I agree, but it's nice when they do compensate.. But I don't expect it.