Question for those in relationships:
Does your significant other ever doubt your feelings for her? I love this girl I am with, but she questions whether I actually do or not. I try to show and her and cite exampled, but it is worthless. The only real result of her doing this is me examing my emotions. Then I begin to think that perhaps she is a waste of my time.
What she doesn't understand is when I rank my priorities, oftentimes she is number one, but the opportunity cost is so great it is by slim margins. The margin value between spending time with her, working on my homework, watching college football, etc. is minimal. Shouldn't she know that causing strife in my life reduces her value compared to the other options?
She doesn't understand that when I think about my feelings, I begin to think about her past (which I have a hard time dealing with), and then think about our possible future. Why can't she let sleeping dogs lie? What she doesn't understand that if she keeps doing this, my mind will overcome my emotion and thus the relationship will be over.
In short, girls are stupid.