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[I want SExxx 10+ year member]

Thanks guys I appreciate it...... The hardest part so far was picking out her casket today...... The is the worst thing I've ever had to do in my life. I lost it right there. Well I'm off to do all the buisness I gotta do being her only child above 18, and everything on her will, and insurace ect.... Ill explain what happened later when i feel like it....... thanks for the comments though. And although I'm not religious she was VERY religious, so if there is a god she's with him. I did follow what I though would be her wishes and a pastor will be speaking at her funeral and I am accepting donations to the church instead of flowers if people wish to do so.

 

[btnhfan 5,000+ posts]

Sorry to hear that.

Thoughts are with you.

 

[Whookid 10+ year member]

Keep your head up, man. Time heals everything.

 

[I want SExxx 10+ year member]

Okay so I'm just chillin I can't get this off of my mind...... but here's the story.... So when I was like 11 or 12 my mom was in a near fatal car accident. She was technically dead a few times. Her and my step dad were comming home from their anniversary and there was a horse in a dip in the road and they hit it. The hoof of the horse hit my mom in the eye and literally shattered her skull into thousands of pieces...... the parametics couldn't believe she survived.... and she was out of it for several weeks ..... mainly the damage was done to her frontal lobe which is a lot of the common sense and her concious. So she still had all of her book smarts, which she was VERY intelligent...... she had many great accmplshmaents prior to the accident like starting up the first home health care for WV. but after the accident it was a battle we lived in NC, and boston for her rehab and she had an amazing recovery. She definately wasn't all there but she was living on her own and making it. before all this she hadnt been doin as well and I had been talking to her an trying to get everything better...... Me living in ohio and not being able to be there and her not seing my sister but once or tice a week was rally hard on her because she really did live for her kids that was her pride and joy. But I got the call yesterday and apparently what happened was there was an electrical short in the house that caught fire in between the floor of her living room and ceiling of her downstairs living room (basement). She was in her bedroom on the other side of the house so it was nice to know that she didn't burn, but she inhaled too much smoke to make it. She was asleep at the time and had taken her PM meds so she went in peace and I was glad to know she wasn't in pain. Today it hit me hard though. planning the funeral was bad but I couldn't take it when I had to pick out her casket. That is by far the hardest thing I've ever went through. but its kinda up and down i can talk about it and be fine but when I was in the house.... and when I was picking out the casket ... and when I had to go buy a dress it was bad Its not lke outof control break down and cry emotions for me but its just the worst depression you could imagine..... it really sucks but I'm just trying to keep my head up.. well I'm out for the night I need to try to get some rest.

 

[Savstyle 10+ year member]

sry to hear that man sounded like she was a smart lady adn ddi some good things. and glad she went in peace. and its better to talk about eveyrhting thas goin on than hold it in man my dad went trho that this past yr. 3 of his bros passed and his mother so tis been a tuf yr. but jus dont holodl stuff in jus let it out makes grieving alot easier. ur fam will b in my prayers

 

[azbass 5,000+ posts]

my condolences friend,

 

[PV Audio 5,000+ posts]

i'm real sorry about that man, i dunno if i'd be able to handle that myself. i just find it amazing how ca.com can be fcking around one minute, but then actually care about people (except for me). i find that kinda tight.

 

[PV Audio 5,000+ posts]

Okay so I'm just chillin I can't get this off of my mind...... but here's the story.... So when I was like 11 or 12 my mom was in a near fatal car accident. She was technically dead a few times. Her and my step dad were comming home from their anniversary and there was a horse in a dip in the road and they hit it. The hoof of the horse hit my mom in the eye and literally shattered her skull into thousands of pieces...... the parametics couldn't believe she survived.... and she was out of it for several weeks ..... mainly the damage was done to her frontal lobe which is a lot of the common sense and her concious. So she still had all of her book smarts, which she was VERY intelligent...... she had many great accmplshmaents prior to the accident like starting up the first home health care for WV. but after the accident it was a battle we lived in NC, and boston for her rehab and she had an amazing recovery. She definately wasn't all there but she was living on her own and making it. before all this she hadnt been doin as well and I had been talking to her an trying to get everything better...... Me living in ohio and not being able to be there and her not seing my sister but once or tice a week was rally hard on her because she really did live for her kids that was her pride and joy. But I got the call yesterday and apparently what happened was there was an electrical short in the house that caught fire in between the floor of her living room and ceiling of her downstairs living room (basement). She was in her bedroom on the other side of the house so it was nice to know that she didn't burn, but she inhaled too much smoke to make it. She was asleep at the time and had taken her PM meds so she went in peace and I was glad to know she wasn't in pain. Today it hit me hard though. planning the funeral was bad but I couldn't take it when I had to pick out her casket. That is by far the hardest thing I've ever went through. but its kinda up and down i can talk about it and be fine but when I was in the house.... and when I was picking out the casket ... and when I had to go buy a dress it was bad Its not lke outof control break down and cry emotions for me but its just the worst depression you could imagine..... it really sucks but I'm just trying to keep my head up.. well I'm out for the night I need to try to get some rest.

oh shit, thats one of the saddest things i've ever read. mainly because 2 yrs ago, my mom was driving up in ft wayne after picking up our new-to-be dog, and it bit her ear. she swerved across the median and was hit driver's side in a 140 combined speed crash. she was pronounced dead at the scene and lasped in and out over the next month or so. luckily, she pulled through. however, her left leg is essentially all titanium because it got crushed in the accident and her head got smashed and she has a short term memory of literally 1-2 hours. the docs say her head condition is getting worse and they can't do anything about it.................

 

[ngsm13 5,000+ posts]

Okay so I'm just chillin I can't get this off of my mind...... but here's the story.... So when I was like 11 or 12 my mom was in a near fatal car accident. She was technically dead a few times. Her and my step dad were comming home from their anniversary and there was a horse in a dip in the road and they hit it. The hoof of the horse hit my mom in the eye and literally shattered her skull into thousands of pieces...... the parametics couldn't believe she survived.... and she was out of it for several weeks ..... mainly the damage was done to her frontal lobe which is a lot of the common sense and her concious. So she still had all of her book smarts, which she was VERY intelligent...... she had many great accmplshmaents prior to the accident like starting up the first home health care for WV. but after the accident it was a battle we lived in NC, and boston for her rehab and she had an amazing recovery. She definately wasn't all there but she was living on her own and making it. before all this she hadnt been doin as well and I had been talking to her an trying to get everything better...... Me living in ohio and not being able to be there and her not seing my sister but once or tice a week was rally hard on her because she really did live for her kids that was her pride and joy. But I got the call yesterday and apparently what happened was there was an electrical short in the house that caught fire in between the floor of her living room and ceiling of her downstairs living room (basement). She was in her bedroom on the other side of the house so it was nice to know that she didn't burn, but she inhaled too much smoke to make it. She was asleep at the time and had taken her PM meds so she went in peace and I was glad to know she wasn't in pain. Today it hit me hard though. planning the funeral was bad but I couldn't take it when I had to pick out her casket. That is by far the hardest thing I've ever went through. but its kinda up and down i can talk about it and be fine but when I was in the house.... and when I was picking out the casket ... and when I had to go buy a dress it was bad Its not lke outof control break down and cry emotions for me but its just the worst depression you could imagine..... it really sucks but I'm just trying to keep my head up.. well I'm out for the night I need to try to get some rest.

Mike, you know I'm always around, and I've thought about you this weekend...as I told you on Friday. When you get back, whatever you want to do...we can do it. I just want to try and help you take some of the weight off your shoulders...gimme a call when you get back. I'll take ya out to dinner or something, and we can just relax //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif Hope things start looking up for you.

-Noah

 

[Speedyd718 10+ year member]

yo mike i'm sorry to hear this man. just keep your head up and stay in good spirits. she without pain now man, remember that. man first cousin passed last weekend(sickle cell) and it hurt real bad(he was the brother i didn't have). hit me up if you need anything man. she's in a better place and you'll see her again one day.

 

[PV Audio 5,000+ posts]

when the hospital called me and told me and my dad that she had passed (but was recesuitated(sp)), i put this on

Nas - Dance

believe me, it'll make u think about the good things about her life.